I was about six years old when it started. Those were the years that should have been filled with laughter, safety, and innocence. But instead, I learnt fear. I learnt …
My Ex Boyfriend’s ‘Distin’ is Not Working And He Believes I Cursed Him
He asked me to pass by his place after work, and I agreed. It was a Friday, so I planned to sleep over and probably spend the weekend with …
I Called My Girlfriend And Another Man Picked Up
My girlfriend is playing some games that are very hurtful to my heart. I have tried to understand her so I can turn her affections back to me but I …
I Still Avoid Mirrors Because of What People Said About My Head
I grew up knowing my head was big and my nose even bigger. No one had to tell me; mirrors don’t lie. From a young age, I understood how different …
She Didn’t Know If The Pregnancy Belonged To My Boyfriend Or Her Boyfriend
I’ll be turning 27 this month. I completed university three months ago and I’m currently waiting for my convocation in December and my NYSC next year. In the meantime, I …
Am I Really a Boyfriend Snatcher?
By some heaven-knows-how coincidence, I earned a reputation for snatching people’s boyfriends. I never understood it. I’ve always been the kind of girl my friends would hide their boyfriends from. …
Today, I Celebrate The Woman Has Loved Me For Five Years
I want to appreciate my girlfriend, whom I’ve been with for five years. The journey hasn’t been easy. We’ve been through days when things were really tough and we had …
My Mom Became A Witch The Day My Father Died
My dad died in August 2022 but was buried in October 2023. I know you’re wondering what took them so long to bury him, so let me tell you. I’m …
I Keep My Mother At Arm’s Length And I Won’t Attend My Father’s Funeral
My mother had me when she was 17 years old. The man who impregnated her was her teacher. Both families decided I shouldn’t be born, but my grandmother changed her …
Why I Changed How I Treated Women
We are six siblings, and I’m the fourth born. When I was nine, our father passed away, and Mum had a hard time catering for us alone. Our youngest, the …
Another Man’s Boxer Shorts Found Its Way Into Our Marriage
My husband found a pair of boxer shorts among the laundry kept on the sofa. He lifted it up with a finger and asked who it was for. I was …
He Said I Pushed Him To Start Doing Drugs Again
Blessing was my senior back in secondary school. He was two classes ahead of me. We never really spoke until he sent me a message on TikTok in August last …












