Lady and I have two children together. We try our best to raise them in a happy home but the road has not been easy. The past seven years have been full of ups and downs. Sometimes it gets to the point where giving up crosses my mind. Is it that easy though? I have just been relying on God to keep us going.

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Our most recent problems started when I travelled for a few months and came back in January, only to find out she had been having flirtatious conversations with another man. She used to call him every single day, morning and evening. She even shared details about every little problem in our relationship with him.

When I confronted her, she denied it at first. Then she changed her tune later and admitted, “He proposed to me but I turned him down. Trust me, I waited for you. I didn’t break my marriage vows.”

After that, she changed her privacy settings. She hid her WhatsApp last seen, her online status, and even limited who could view her status updates, including me. It turned out she had the same privacy settings for three other guys.

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By and by, we had conversations about all these things. She apologised for acting in a way that made me distrust her. She said she would be more transparent going forward. We tried to move past all the drama.

But just a few weeks ago, I found out she’s been flirting with another man she works with. They’ve been having romantic conversations. He told her, “I’m travelling soon. I want to see you again before I leave.” Because I was around, she promised to meet him another time instead.

I don’t understand how a married woman with a family can miss another man she met barely five weeks ago, to the point of planning to meet him again. Again? Whenever I ask her for explanations she calls me childish.

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I’m deeply hurt by her actions. She makes me feel I’m not good enough for her. She claims there’s nothing going on behind my back but I’m struggling to trust her again. I want us to have an honest conversation about that man but she brushes me off and says I’m just being paranoid.

I feel like I’m losing my mind. I’ve been thinking about our relationship a lot, and I’m disappointed. After everything we’ve been through I truly believed we were stronger than this. I thought we had something real, but now I’m not so sure.

Honestly, do you think this marriage is even worth saving?

—Kira

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