My husband of eleven years cheated with a young girl, and I was trying to come to terms with it. I left home for a while to clear my head. I had told him I wanted a divorce, but I wasn’t sure if that was what I wanted. He was begging me not to leave him. He sent friends, family, and even strangers to beg on his behalf.
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For a whole month, my heart ached and my mind was blurry. Some days I wanted to cut the cord, and other times I wanted to stay married. All I needed was time to figure it out, but our pastor called and asked me for a short meeting.
He’s a respected man of God and was the one who blessed our marriage, so it was right that we took our marriage to him when it was facing problems. While seated there and listening to the words from his mouth, something divine touched my heart and asked me to forgive, no matter what.
And then the pastor asked my husband, “Let’s get to the bottom of this. What do you think pushed you to cheat on your wife? I don’t want the ‘the devil did it’ kind of answer. Be honest.”
My husband responded, “She pushed me, maybe unknowingly, but she did. She sleeps and does nothing during the act. I wanted more, so when this lady offered herself, I took the chance.”
I was shocked by his answer, but the next one was the big shocker. The pastor asked how he knew the lady he cheated with would do more than me, and he answered, “She’s young, so it’s natural she would do better than my wife.”
I got up, thanked the pastor, and told my husband, “Get up and let’s go home. Let’s go and think about how to take care of the kids after the divorce. This won’t work.”
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I’ve initiated the process, but he says he won’t cooperate. He can lie in the bed he made. He should go to the younger ones who can give more in bed. I have four kids, waist pains, and backaches—there’s nothing more to give.
—Asantewaa
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Those questions from the pastor were uncalled for. pls try to forgive , prayerfully U won’t encounter such challenges again.most of the marriages celebrated this days encountered such challenges but they are still together.
Aren’t you a woman , how can you be saying all this , did you see the response he gave her , instead of talking to her about it he said younger ones are better, after all that’s what you guys would say when a man cheats , forgive him but if it’s a woman that cheats you would say he should leave
don’t let this break you down, focus on yourself and children
Men are naturally cheaters no matter how u satisfy us, it only takes the fear of God to avoid that
Don’t let that what God put together, you or your husband’s behaviors put it asunder. You’re hoping for a divorce to find a childless, virgin, new young man waiting for you at that age?? Moreover with your kids. Forgive your husband as the Divine thing had interjected in you earlier. Losing everything you’ve built for all 11yrs in the name of starting new is like a mess.
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