We started very small as lovers, Karen and I. We left the university together, but she wasn’t working. I was the one working. I was retained where I did my …
My Girlfriend Is Abroad But I Send Her Money Every Month
When she was here in Ghana and we were dating, I gave her a monthly allowance. She was not working and had bills to pay. I loved her and loved …
For Five Good Years, I Was a Good Side Chick. So Why Did He Leave?
There was the time during Bernard and the time after. The time during was beautiful, sweet. I was happy in ways I did not stop to question. Five years ago, …
When My Husband Cheated, I Cheated Too, But We Stayed Because of the Kids
When my husband cheated, it broke me into pieces. It wasn’t so much about the cheating but the person he cheated with. If it had been some polished woman from …
I Was Living in a Love Story That Only Benefited Him
Dear Jay, How are you? How is life treating you? I hope when you read this you know it is coming from a place of peace and joy, not the …
My Husband Had Another Baby With His Ex While I Was Raising Their First Child
Before we started dating, my husband told me about a child he had with his ex-girlfriend. At the time, the boy was only three years old. It didn’t bother me …
My Husband Wants a Divorce Because I Refused To Move Us Into a House I’ve Built
When I married my husband, I entered the marriage with the usual hopes most women carry. I believed we were building a life together. I believed that whatever we earned, …
What My Sister-in-Love Doesn’t Know May Break Her Marriage
There is a secret my husband’s family has been hiding for years. They have succeeded so well in covering their tracks that the one person who should know has no …
My Wedding Became a Boxing Match Between My Family And My Husband’s Family
During my traditional wedding, I was inside the room waiting for them to come for me so I could go and meet my husband when I heard the sound of …
I Discovered My Husband’s Real Wife on Facebook After I Became Pregnant
I met Paa at an event I was managing. He came up to me and asked how I did it and how much I would charge if I organized the …
Five Days Before Our Wedding, A Woman Appeared With My Fiancé’s Son
One month to our wedding my father died. I was devastated. My dad was my everything from the day my mother died. My brother said the wedding could go on …
My Ex Says He Will Take Me Abroad If I Forgive Everything He Did to Me
My family is asking me to forgive him and give him another chance. They are using the same phrases I have heard people use for years when men act carelessly: …












