My fiance is exactly my spec: slim, dark and lovely, and very curvy too. And I cherish her so much that I go up and above the standards set for her by her exes. So, she was previously dating a man who was responsible for almost her entire lifestyle. Her rent, food, this man provided for her. The only problem was that the man was married. She did not know, but when she discovered his status, she left him.
Well, I should have taken a pause here and retreated, but who amongst you here has not sinned?
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Since we started dating, all I have asked of her is loyalty. My heart has been broken by women through lies and deception, so loyalty was what I needed her to bring to the table. I do all the provisions: her food, paying her bills, giving her GH₵1,000 every month, plus an allowance for her hair and nails. They call it self-maintenance. Sometimes, I even go to her place to wash her dirty clothes when she is not around.
I love her oo.
Three weeks ago, my family went over to present drinks and collect the list for our marriage. The next day, we went to a clinic facility to get our medicals done.
But lately, I am not happy.
Anytime we have intimacy, she is just cold. She lies there with no vibe, no connection. I have talked to her about it, but still, no show.
She confessed to having been intimate with a male friend of hers. She said he forced her, but the said friend is telling a different story. How do you continue talking to someone you claim forced you to be intimate with him?
A few days ago, I went to her place and saw emergency pills and a sex toy in her bag. In her diary, she had also written about her regrets over leaving her ex-boyfriend.
About two days ago, I caught her in the act of lying to me. I demanded accountability, and she confessed that she has not been happy in our relationship. She gave me the free will to leave if I wanted to. But she sent me a text afterwards trying to do damage control by saying she meant that whenever we argue, she is unhappy.
I am tired, guys. I have invested so much, but I feel disrespected and unloved.
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Should I continue with the marriage, hoping she will change, or should I walk away now before it is too late? Please advise your brother. I am already wearied out, so please, less with the insults.
— Richard
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For ur sanity bro leave,lest u want to fall into depression
My friend run faster and don’t look back .
My brother, your just a needy person, until u solve that neediness you’ll be stuck in this loop,you do things for people without doing it for yourself first,how won’t you be say you have invested alot.first work on yourself bro healthy relationship will come automatic
Guy, walking away from someone you love is one of the hardest things a person can do, but choosing your peace of mind over constant emotional turbulence is always the right decision.
When a red flag appears, ignoring it or hoping it will turn green only prolongs the pain. Loving someone doesn’t automatically mean they are healthy for you, and recognizing that distinction takes incredible self awareness and strength.
Give yourself space to grieve the connection without second guessing your choice. Protecting your mental and emotional well being is never selfish, it is necessary.
The most dangerous thing is to fall in love with the wrong person and to be in love with someone who do not feel the same for you. Poor you!
she will continue to cheat on you , that’s the truth , please leave her and don’t go back even if she is to ask you for a second chance otherwise she will cheat on you .
Leave Richy. Leave whilst it’s still just the two of you. The lies and cheating will continue in marriage. It will not change. So leave now.
I pray you do.
Be wise and advise yourself before it is too late. Whatever you want to see, I think you’ve already seen it. When you marry her, it’s going to be worse because this time the men will be brought to your matrimonial house and onto the bed as well. Be vigilant, my dear.
My brother are you not loved at home? Why in this twenty first century would an able bodied adult decide that the man in her life should be responsible for all her bills, does she not work?
That was the first red flag and the flags just kept multiplying after that.
Please kindly leave this relationship for your sanity. You’re the only one in love. She’s only hanging on to you because you are her ATM, but she’s so turned off by you that she can’t even do it wholeheartedly.