
I met Azibo three years ago. I turned him down when he first proposed love to me. I didn’t like him. Apart from the fact that he is seven years older than me, physically, he was not my type. He is short and dark. My type back then was tall and light-skinned guys. I had a boyfriend who fit that spec. The only problem was that he was not treating me well.
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Azibo, on the other hand, was the kindest man I’ve ever met. Even three years after I turned him down, he still treated me like a queen. I was still studying at the time while he was working. My then boyfriend was also working, but he was not present for me emotionally, nor was he supportive financially.
Azibo was there for me in any way I needed him. He helped me do my assignments. When it came to money too, he gave freely. He was my rock. I could always count on him in times of need.
By and by, I started developing feelings for him. It made it easier for me to distance myself from my boyfriend gradually. By the time I was head over heels in love with Azibo, I dumped the guy who was not treating me well. And said yes to Azibo’s proposal.
I was like a precious egg in his hand. He was always soft and gentle with me. That’s how I ended up trusting him without leaving even a little room for doubt. When he asked me to move in with him, I agreed. I stayed with him during my final year until I graduated.
Seven months down the line, I missed my period. I took a pregnancy test and it was positive. While I was anxious and confused, he was happy. “I want to marry you as soon as possible. I don’t want the baby to be born out of wedlock,” he proposed.
Knowing his intentions calmed me. I didn’t want to have a baby out of wedlock so it was all working out. We held the traditional marriage ceremony. The plan is to have the white wedding after the baby comes.
Things were blissful, but now everything feels bleak. I went through my husband’s phone for the first time since we became a couple. It wasn’t because I suspected him of cheating. I was just curious.
It turns out he is in a relationship with his first love. Someone who is married with four children. The most heartbreaking part for me is that the woman’s lastborn is Azibo’s child. The baby is even older than our daughter, who is currently two months old.
One line that runs through his conversation with her is a proposal. He tells her, “Marry me secretly so we can run away to Korea and be together.”
Wow! He is willing to run away to another country with the love of his life without any consideration for me and our child. Azibo? I wouldn’t have believed it if anyone had warned me.
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This is a man my father did not approve of. Can you believe I went against my dad and married him anyway? My dad was willing to take care of me and the baby but I chose Azibo, a man whose heart and soul are elsewhere.
It’s hurting me a lot. Why did he marry me if he loves her this much? I feel so used. I haven’t talked to anyone since I found out. Should I pack my stuff and go back to my parents’ house? I don’t have a job yet. I got pregnant before I could get one. What do I do?
—Chichi
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Confront him about it! I doubt he can come up with any excuse for this, but confront him anyway. Take a firm decision thereafter. Don’t be tied down to him because you have a child with him. He owes you the duty to take care of her. Leave and live your life if you have to and don’t look back.