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Weeks after our visa denial, I received a message from Kyei’s number. When I opened the message, it was a video. Kyei was in the video with another woman who wasn’t his wife. This woman in the video was dark, meanwhile Kyei had told me he never liked dark women. In one of the videos, they were by the beachside and were kissing and smooching. I was like, “What! Kyei can have eyes for another woman? After everything?”

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Everything came as a shock to me because this was a man I saw virtually every day, and we were on the phone or doing video calls, so when did he have the time to do that with another woman? I thought it was an old video, but I checked the date and it was 2023.

“Who is this girl?”

In the video, the lady had a necklace on that was bearing her name, “Amanda.” That necklace looked so familiar because he had gotten me one not long ago.

“Amanda…?”

While I was contemplating who the lady was, another message came from his number saying, “Sorry, it was a mistake.” I said to myself, “No, this can’t be a mistake. There’s something going on somewhere.”

Apart from Amanda’s video, there were other pictures and screenshots the number sent. I looked at the picture and there was a girl from our office. I looked at the picture critically and saw the lady was sitting on the same chair I used to sit on while I was working there. I read the messages in the screenshot. Kyei and the lady were exchanging love messages and professing unending love to each other. That means the lady they hired to replace me at the office also replaced me in Kyei’s life in the office.

I quickly called his best friend, the one Amanda spoke about in her story. At this point, let’s call him Akwesi. I narrated what had happened, and the first question he asked was, “Was the video taken in Ghana?” He asked me to forward the videos to him and I did. After viewing the videos, he was like, “There’s a huge problem in Kyei’s house. His wife had come around and had seized his phone, so I shouldn’t call Kyei’s phone.”

I said, “That’s not what’s important to me right now. I want to know who that girl in the video is.” He responded, “I’ll get back to you soon, don’t worry.”

I didn’t hear from him again until Kyei called me with another line, telling me all was not well in the house and that he would call me later to explain. I was so livid I didn’t want to hear his voice. After that call, I didn’t hear from him again until, I think, over a week later.

While I was waiting for an explanation from Kyei, Akwesi came to my house to meet me and my mother. He said he had come with an apology. I said, “Cut the chase and get to the point where you tell me who that girl is.”

So, Kyei had a car rental business he was doing with Akwesi. According to Akwesi, Kyei had decided to go into car spare parts importation from Germany, and luckily for him, Amanda lived in Germany, so they decided to do the importation business together. But before Kyei could travel to Germany to do the business, he and Amanda had to act like a couple so they could send the evidence to the embassy to secure a visa for Kyei to travel to Germany. “Everything you saw in the said video wasn’t real,” he told me. “They were just acting as a couple to secure a visa.”

Days later, Kyei came around to tell me the same story Akwesi had told me. I asked, “And you didn’t get anywhere to meet her but Dubai?”

Things got heated for weeks. He sent apologies and booked trips that I refused until a lot of time passed for it to become an obsolete case. It was right after that issue he brought in the Canada travel. He told me if the U.S. didn’t work, we should try Canada because he was determined for us to leave Ghana.

He made me his wife again on the document, we went for a visa interview and were waiting for a response from the Canadian embassy. This was December 2023. While we were going through the process for Canada, he was also making arrangements with Amanda to travel to the UK.

So, in January 2024, while still waiting to hear from the Canadian embassy, he told me he had gained admission into a school in the UK. He said he gained the admission in 2022 but deferred his course because our child had just been born, so he didn’t want to leave us here. I was like, “All this while that we were going up and down, you never mentioned the UK, so where is this coming from?”

He said a lot of things that didn’t make sense and said, “I’m doing all this for you. If I go to the UK, maybe I will get a good job and be on a better visa and later come for you so we can be together as the family you have always dreamt of.”

Hmmm.

He left for the UK. I can stop telling my story from here because Amanda has told you everything from there, but there’s more. He told me he was living with an elderly man. He would call me every time, we would do video calls, he would send me videos of him on campus and everything. Not knowing he and Amanda lived close to a university, so he would go there, do a video and send it to me.

One day, I stumbled on Amanda’s video on TikTok. I knew her from the videos Kyei’s wife sent, so immediately I saw her, I knew she was the one. She was very active on TikTok, so I kept monitoring her until I realized she was in the UK instead of the Germany Kyei and his friend sold to me. I started growing suspicious. And then one day, she posted on her TikTok page that she had given birth. I was like, “Naaa, this problem looks like Kyei’s handwriting.” Still, I didn’t say anything until Kyei came back to visit Ghana.

I sat him down and patiently asked him to tell me the truth. “Is the child yours?” Again, he sold me a story that sounded believable somehow. He even showed me photos of Amanda and another man holding Amanda’s baby during the naming ceremony of the child and said, “Look at her baby daddy. How would you give another man’s child to me?”

A few weeks later, Kyei’s wife sent another naming ceremony photo of Amanda’s child. This time, it was Kyei who was carrying the baby in his arms. Honestly, I wasn’t shocked. It felt like a confirmation of what I’d always suspected. I didn’t ask Kyei about it or make any fuss about it until the day Amanda called me and started asking questions.

In fact, I didn’t hold back. I told her everything I knew about Kyei and his wife and also the situation between me and Kyei. Amanda went to confront him, and when he realized I was the one giving Amanda information, he got angry and called my mom to tell her that it was over between the two of us and that he wanted to focus on himself going forward. He didn’t call me. I didn’t also bother to call him because at this point, I’d seen and experienced enough to know he wasn’t going to change for me.

In June 2024, while in the UK, he shipped a Ford SUV to me. When he told my mom it was over between us, he sent Akwesi to come for the car. I told him to his face that I would never give the car to him. Akwesi called Kyei to complain to him, and for the first time in our lives, Kyei insulted me on the phone for refusing to give the car back. Then I knew it was the end indeed.

Currently, I’ve blocked him. He sends child support through my mother. Throughout our troubles, I kept talking to Amanda. Today we are good friends. We are always on the phone gisting. Sometimes, it occurs to me that I’d hurt Kyei’s wife immeasurably. I pray and ask God for forgiveness, but when my story was posted yesterday and I read the comments, the feeling of guilt and pain engulfed me all over again. I was like, “What was I thinking?”

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So yesterday, I picked up my phone and texted Kyei’s wife. I said, “You don’t need to respond to me, but I want to say that I’m very sorry. And this is coming from the deepest depth of my heart. I really am. Forgive me for the pain I’ve caused you. You don’t deserve any of the things I took you through. Forgive me.”

I don’t expect her to just jump up and forgive because I’ve apologized, but I pray someday, a light shines through her heart and she sees the need to let things go.

—Adadziwa

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