The woman I love has three children. She’s still beautiful for a woman who has three children. I love her. We’ve been dating for one year now.

I took her home and my parents loved her. They expressed their love and acceptance openly to her and that made her feel welcomed. Once she was away, my parents started asking questions about her and I told them everything including the fact that she has three children.

My mom screamed, “No, you won’t marry her.” My Dad continued, “If you want to take care of kids, your brother and sister are still in school. We can leave them for you to continue from there.”

She calls my parents and they are very nice towards her. She visits our home and my parents give her a first-class reception but once she is gone, they gather around me and say, “Don’t get it twisted. We won’t allow you to marry a problem.”

My mind hasn’t changed about her but I feel my parents are not being fair to her. Apart from that, they are also making it difficult for me to let her go. What excuse do I give her as the reason I don’t want her? What do I tell her to convince her that it’s not me but my parents?

She even sends my parents gifts and they accept the gifts wholeheartedly and bless her but once she’s off the picture, they laugh at me and tell me to forget it.

I don’t know how to handle a situation like this. My woman wants us to start the preparation towards marriage. She knows all is set. She blames me when I tell her to give me some time. What should I do to resolve this situation?

Aaron   

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