My girlfriend and I were together for a few months peacefully, until she stopped talking to me all of a sudden. We didn’t fight or have any problems. She just refused to pick up my calls and respond to my messages. I was so confused, because I could see her present online.
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When I got tired of being ignored by her, I left her alone. I was determined not to reach out to her even though I wanted answers. “If she calls or texts, I’ll hear her out,” I resolved.
Then somewhere last week she texted me, “Please I need some money urgently. I promise to pay you back when I start work.”
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Her message didn’t make sense to me. First, you stopped talking to me without telling me why. When you finally reached out too, you didn’t apologise for leaving me hanging. Rather, it was to ask me for help. I didn’t know what to make of it so I didn’t respond.
So she followed up her text with a phone call. According to her story, she got a job offer in Kumasi. While it’s a good opportunity for her, the job doesn’t come with accommodation so she would have to rent a place over there.
“I need GHS3,500 to pay for the rent. You will get your money back when I start working, I assure you.”
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The truth is, I can help her. Nonetheless, I don’t trust that she would pay me back. That’s why I’m hesitant to give it to her. I mean, this is a woman who ghosted me while we were in a relationship. What’s the guarantee that she won’t disappear on me if I give her the money?
She’s been calling and texting me as if I owe her money and I am refusing to pay. I don’t pick up. I don’t respond to her messages either. I just want to know if I should help her regardless of her actions in the past. Or if I should return her energy and ghost her in her hour of need.
—Joe
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… This is a woman who ghosted me while we WERE in a relationship.
I reserve my comment
The Bible says if your enemy is hungry feed them if they’re thirsty give them a drink if they’re naked clothe them. It’ll be like heaping burning coals on their heads.
Do with it as you will. Granted that you’re not enemies but 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️
Bro forget about love or anything cus clearly u mean absolutely nothing to her treat her the same way she treateD U oooh show her that ure human not a goat
she’s doesn’t deserve your support, be smart and cut her off
Bossu,
Kindly disregard her incessant calls and text messages. She is up for no good…
I strongly believe it is just one of those concocted stories. You give her the money at your own peril.
I have about 30 lines worth of things to say….but hmmmm.
If you haven’t been able to cut the person who ghosted you off after she came back and offered no apologies but went straight to asking you for money and you’re here asking for our opinions then my brother give her the money OK.
I really have a lot to say but 3y3.
She doesn’t love you, no way
The picture is lucid, so there’s no need to be indecisive.
She has shown you her true nature, and whom you are, to her.
She is toxic and a narcissist, and sees you as a means to an end.
Please don’t serve as an enabler to someone of her kind by obliging her request, so I will advise matching her energy with more intense energy.