I was green when I came to the university. It was my vow to God to keep my body pure as a living sacrifice for Him. No matter the situation I was plunged into, I did everything possible to avoid temptations that would lead me to sin against God.
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Everything has changed now. I can’t even go on my knees and pray in good conscience. Nobody told me that going to the university and meeting new people would be the biggest challenge I would have to overcome.
I found myself in a room with girls who had done it before. They were experienced when it came to the act of sɛx. That is all they talk about. How good it feels. How nice it is when the guy knows what he is doing. They spoke about it so casually that I felt out of place among them.
I started feeling everyone was doing it and I was abnormal for being a virgin. At first, I wouldn’t talk to a guy let alone go on a date with one. But recently I agreed to go out with a guy who has been hitting on me.
I didn’t want to rush things. I wanted to take my time to get to know him before deciding if I would even do anything with him. Unfortunately, the date turned into something else.
Three Months After Our Breakup, He Got Married
Although I willingly agreed to go to his place, it was just to continue the whole getting to know each other conversation. Midway through our talk, he started getting all up in my personal space. Before I could tell him I was uncomfortable, he was on me. It happened so quickly. He took what he wanted and left me feeling empty.
I’ve been so down since it happened. Although I didn’t give him the go-ahead to do it, I still feel it was my fault for thinking he would respect my boundaries. I feel so guilty. I have sinned against my body and my God. The worst part is that I found out after everything that he is married. Oh my, I don’t know what to do with myself.
—Vonny
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Don’t ever go near that guy again, even if he promises you heaven on earth. What he did to you was not only evil, it was illegal.
My dear, I really understand you and your feelings are valid. This is a rape case since you didn’t consent to it. But try and forgive him and forgive yourself as well. God is not angry with you and you are not a loosed girl. You are still a child of God. Don’t allow the devil to take advantage of this situation and mess up your mind, thereby pulling you away from God. You are God’s delight!
Even though you have sinned against God, God has never discarded you, come to him like a prodigal son, forgive him and yourself as it has been said, you may need someone to lean on to speed up your healing process. Be careful of company you keep,evil friends corrupt good manners and intention. Learn to stand for your beliefs, no matter what happens.
If he’s a student, go and report him to the school authorities and if he’s not, no guilt, report him to the police.
I think it’s about time by being ruthless in handing such people over to the appropriate authorities so our brothers will stop this sh*t of rape
When you report him, they’ll help you go to the hospital to check if you have not been infected with any disease or not pregnant