My boyfriend and I have spoken about everything else under the sun except for my cooking skills. So, I asked him about it. “Babe, you didn’t even ask if I know how to cook.” He asked me why there was a need to ask if I know how to cook when I am a woman.

I responded, “What if I don’t know how to cook and the only meal I know how to make is noodles? I like it. Why, can’t you cook for us?” He replied, “Yes, I can. I can cook for the two of us.”

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I was about to text back, “What a sweet man you are,” when he interrupted me, saying, “You better go and learn how to cook.” The next thing he said sounded more like a warning. “Does it make sense to you that your husband should be cooking for you?”

When I responded that it wasn’t a big deal for my husband to cook for me, he called me mannerless. So I told him, “That is why, at age 31, I still found you single and wrecked. You don’t think it is weird.”

First, he said, “I know what to tell you, but I will not waste my time on you.” I don’t know what happened, whether he changed his mind or what, but the insults flowed afterwards. “That is why you will stay in your father’s house for a very long time. You don’t know how to cook at your prime age, and you are happy about it.”

I think he has blocked me because I keep texting him and it just ticks once, meanwhile he is always online. I have sent him an apology, saying I’m sorry if what I said made him that angry, bearing my heart out to him.

All the same, I am worried and concerned too. What if I had been with him when I said it? Would he have raised his hands at me?

—Zain

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