As humans, we are taught to forgive people who wrong us but I am looking for a way to make Ayton pay for what he did to me. Our relationship started on a blissful note in April, however, time has taught me that I didn’t know him at all.
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At the beginning, he was attentive, sweet and constantly present. He even introduced me to his mother as a sign of his commitment to me. I won’t lie, meeting his mother gave me a sense of security. I felt I was truly the one he wanted to spend the rest of his life with.
Then he started changing. The phone calls became inconsistent. Text messages became a game of Russian roulette, I didn’t know which ones would get a response. His excuse was that he was busy.
“No one is that busy. If I mattered to you, you would at least make time to talk to me.”
“Please understand that I am under a lot of stress right now. But I am trying.”
Because he presented himself as a godly man, I never doubted him. I believed he was indeed doing his best to be present for me despite everything he claimed he was going through.
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I was patient with him when he didn’t return my calls. I sent him messages even when he picked and chose which ones to respond to. I was being an understanding girlfriend, only to find out that there was no stressful situation. His attention was rather divided between me and another woman.
Just as he introduced me to his mother, he took her home to meet his family as well. He denied it when I confronted him. His mother also claimed it wasn’t true. They didn’t know I had proof. I stood on that to break up with him.
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Instead of accepting his fault, he turned around and accused me of cheating on him. Then he asked my younger brother to convince me to talk to him. Talk about what? The fact that he is dating another man’s wife and introduced her to his mother? The audacity!
Me, I don’t want to say anything to him. I want revenge for all his lies, manipulation, betrayal, and gaslighting. Tell me, what’s the best way to make him pay?
—Judith
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The best way to deal with him is to install sense for yourself
you sound like youre suffering from some form of a childhood trauma
or you enjoy too much Nigeria movies
better still, you spend too much time on IG,FB and Tiktok.
Wake up!
Na gyai gimiii nu
Dear Judith,
Be thankful that it did not lead to long-term relationship such as marriage and other consequences. He obviously does not deserve a second chance as he chose to two time, and whit none but a married woman (according to you).
It’s sad that his mother might be in on this, but save yourself the stress of vengeance or being vengeful.
Enjoy the peace of singlehood and only try dating once you have gotten over the betrayal. The best to you as you heal.