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When we got back together, he became extremely sweet. He called, texted, and video-called constantly. All of a sudden, he’d become everything I once wished for. One day, he said he had missed me. I asked, “So what are you going to do?” Guess what he did. He booked a flight for me to visit Ghana just so he could spend a few days with me. I was blown away. Smitten, actually.
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I became a thing between us. Whenever he missed me, we found a way to meet somewhere. Ghana, Dubai, whatever. One day, on one of our luxury trips, he proposed with a ring. I was wowed, but then I felt it was time to sit and have an honest conversation about his marriage and how far the divorce had gone.
He told me he was never really ready for marriage but was forced into it. He said they didn’t have children because his wife had suffered multiple miscarriages. I felt bad for her, especially knowing she might have been older and desperately wanted children. Again, he claimed unhappiness, but the reason the divorce had dragged on was because of his wife. According to him, his wife was fighting against the divorce because it was against her religious beliefs, and also, no one in her family had ever divorced. He further alleged that she demanded all their property, which he wasn’t willing to give up.
To back his claims, he showed me an open divorce case file. His close friend, someone I respected so much, also confirmed that the divorce was real and that it was the wife who was refusing to move on. I believed him.
Our relationship became intense and romantic. Despite the distance, he regularly booked tickets for us to see each other. One of our most memorable trips was to Dubai, where he gave me another ring. He called it our wedding ring. I was happy. I was in love. I felt fulfilled. We created beautiful memories in Dubai.
Shortly after the Dubai trip, when I’d returned to the UK happy and feeling secure in our relationship, he started putting in effort to join me in the UK. He claimed he had paid someone for a contract marriage but was scammed. Later, he said he had secured admission to a school in the UK but couldn’t afford the fees. He backed up these claims with convincing documents and several other pieces of evidence. I was impressed by his determination and willingness to join me.
Eventually, I offered to help him at no cost. I was on a skilled worker visa and could easily bring him as my dependent. One day in a conversation, I brought it up. “Why don’t you allow me to bring you in? I can easily do it.” He agreed immediately, so I started putting plans together to make our dream of living together come true.
My next trip to Ghana was for us to sign marriage documents at AMA, which he could use to apply for his visa as my husband. Before this could happen, however, something strange occurred.
In September 2023, I received a disturbing message from a number claiming to be his wife. She said, “Stay away from my husband.” She then went ahead to send a video and mentioned something like “a baby mama.” I was shocked and confused at the same time. Her English was all over the place, so it made it difficult for me to understand. Actually, the rest of the message was not quite clear as to what she sought to communicate.
I decided not to talk to Kyei about it but rather forwarded the message to his friend and asked, “Is what the woman saying true?”
I also sent the message to my own friend, through whom I met Kyei. Nobody answered me at first. Then, suddenly, both friends called me, urging me to delete and block the number. They insisted that the woman was evil and doing everything she could to destroy Kyei’s life and chances of happiness. They claimed she only wanted me to respond so she could use it in court as part of evidence in their divorce proceedings.
Then the question became: How did she get my number if he wasn’t living with her anymore, as he claimed? How could she access this information? When Kyei called me later and I put this question to him, he claimed his wife sent people to steal his phone, which they succeeded in doing, and that was how she got access to his private messages.
Honestly, I didn’t believe him. But the way his friends described the wife made me think she was desperate and malicious and capable of anything. Whenever I spoke to Kyei, he told me the divorce process was causing him so much stress he couldn’t sleep. He also claimed his lawyer advised him to leave the country and cut communication with her for a year, which would lead to an automatic dissolution of the marriage.
I believed what he said about his lawyer’s advice, so I brushed the incident aside and proceeded to marry him in Ghana. Somehow, he provided a divorce certificate to the UK Home Office, and his visa was approved. He told me this proved the divorce was almost finalized.
Shortly before he arrived in the UK, I found out I was pregnant. I was overjoyed. I’d come to love him deeply and wanted to have his baby. But when I told him, he said, “The baby isn’t coming at the right time. I want to come to the UK, settle in, enjoy life with you, and then have a child once we are stable.”
His response crushed me. I told him, “I won’t terminate it today or tomorrow. If it comes to it, I wouldn’t mind raising the child all by myself.”
A few hours later, he backtracked and said he was just joking and that he was happy to have the baby.
Just before coming to the UK, he offered to visit my family and formally introduce himself. I asked if he was truly divorced, and he confidently said, “Yes. If I wasn’t, I wouldn’t take such a bold step. It is finalized.”
He went to meet my family. My family welcomed him with open arms, and right after the visit, he traveled to the UK to be with me. I was so excited. I got us a place to live and even bought a car for us, knowing how hard it would be to commute, especially as he looked for a job.
A month later, he returned to Ghana to attend a close friend’s funeral and check on his business. I was five months pregnant. He returned, and we moved into a larger two-bedroom house in preparation for the baby. He eventually secured a well-paying job, and soon, I gave birth to a beautiful baby boy—his first child.
Although he was present at the birth, he didn’t seem as excited as I expected. I thought maybe he was just overwhelmed. When I asked him to take paternity leave to support me, he said it wasn’t possible due to his new job. I doubted that, but I didn’t push. I handled everything myself, with help from a close friend, especially since my mother’s visa was delayed.
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Two months later, we had the baby’s dedication. Shortly after, he took time off work, not to support me, but to travel to Ghana to check on his business again. I mentioned this to my sister, and she said, “Something is fishy about your man. He’s hiding something. You need to open your eyes.”
I told you it’s going to be a long story. Please stay with me. Everything that has happened so far is just the tip of the iceberg.
Part Three comes at exactly 1 p.m. today
—Amanda
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Where is the part 3 of Amanda’s story? You’ve been posting Adadziwaa’s own. I’m interested in Amanda’s story as well.