
My girlfriend was out for a hangout with a friend she had just met recently, a male friend, but ended up in a hotel at the end of the day. When she told me about her newfound friend, I was skeptical about him. But she went on to say that he just wanted to be friends and, “I have you; what else will I need? Besides, he stays out of town. I will only see him if he comes around and invites me for a hangout.”
The next thing was, days later, she said he was in town and wanted to hang out. I told her to be careful and have fun. For me, I was supposed to pick up a package for my sister, so that was what I was going to do and then rest for the rest of the day.
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I couldn’t catch the rest and was scrolling on her internet when she messaged me again, bringing an update on the hangout. How does a hangout turn into my girlfriend being in a hotel room, waiting for a man she had just met?
She said they were supposed to go to a mall, but because of a work emergency, the guy said they should just book a hotel that was closest to the mall while he rushed to fix the emergency and return.
I was so angry that I started calling her all the slutty names that came to the top of my tongue because how does she end up in a hotel with a man she barely knows? Isn’t that the life of a …? She didn’t even let me have the last words. We both burst out insulting each other.
Maybe I acted out of order when I called her names and threw all those derogatory words at her. Did I? Even worse is that she sees nothing wrong with the whole drama. I’m confused and have a lot running through my mind.




Dear Melvin,you have done soo well
You are both wrong. She for her naivety and you for your immaturity and insecurity. Do you think that she would have told you she was in a hotel room if she really wanted to cheat on you? It’s obvious she is very naive and trusting and unaware of the danger she exposed herself to. And that is what you should have drawn her attention to! Now, go make peace and grow up, both of you!
Actually there are a lot of ladies who will tell you exactly what they re doing just to throw you off your game. By opening up to you in that way,it creates the doubt and makes you believe them all the while they’re doing their.
It’s also a strategy used by some girls. You would think it’s naivety, I promise you only master manipulators know how to successfully give you just enough information to make you believe and also doubt whatever your instincts are telling you. Let her go