I don’t have breasts, but I have a good character. Everybody around town knows me by my flat chest, but they can also attest to the fact that I’m a good person. What I lack in breasts, I make up for with good character and a sense of humor.
Whenever a guy proposes to me, I point to my chest and say, “Are you sure you like what you find? Your baby might starve. Do you still like it?”
They usually laugh, and we go on to have a wonderful relationship until they start behaving like wizards, and then I walk away. I did the same with Joseph. He said he loved me, and I showed him what I lacked. He said he didn’t have a problem with it, and I said, “Then it’s a relationship.”
Months into the relationship, everything is going very well, except he wants me to lie. He asked me to wear bras that would pad my chest and make it look like there’s something there. I told him people would laugh at me, and doing that would mean I’m ashamed of who I am.
He bought the bra himself and handed it to me as a gift. He even made me try it on. He took photos and said, “Just look at you. A beauty to behold.”
I took it off and said, “And then what happens when I take it off? Am I suddenly too ugly to behold?”
He loves me. When I’m with him, the world fades away. He wants to marry me as soon as possible, but his obsession with my breast size, or rather, the lack of it, is my problem. We go out, and he wants me to put it on. I wear a dress, and he tells me it would look more beautiful if something protruded from the chest area.
Who Would You Choose, A Rich Man Or A Man Who’s Good In Bed?
I want to marry him too, but I keep thinking, “When does he stop feeling bad for me because of my breasts? What if we marry and it becomes an order instead of a request?”
That’s my problem. Is it valid?
—Esi
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This implies you do not do ‘ make up’ ? If yes, then be yourself but if no, then I do not see nothing wrong with what your guy is saying. After all, you pretend to be who you are not in by hiding in 1 ( one) inch ‘make up’.
If This man doesn’t body shame you when you are with him then I think there’s nothing wrong. Some women with breasts still wear padded bras.
I don’t think he’s asking too much.
When you have kids, they may increase in size.
Let’s be honest here is this the kind of man you want to marry or have as the father of your children. Supposing you have a daughter who has your breast size ,do you want to accept being told your boobs are too flat so she should hide it by using a foamy bra? The answer is no. This is how toxicity begins. Don’t tolerate that and don’t be too desperate to settle for less. Besides it’s not all women who gain boobs after childbirth. Embrace your God giving beauty.
The question here is that have you medically checked yourself and certified that it is just a physical attribute that you don’t have a protruding/big breasts..
Hope it’s not going to affect your fertility and child bearing, so that this can be discussed before hands as well…
The guy meant well for you sha, hopefully you reason with him, give him chance and when you start giving birth, your breasts will come out fully.
I don’t think there is anything wrong with what the guy wants
Do you want him to go around explaining to people you meet that his wife naturally has a flat chest?
You don’t owe anybody an explanation for having flat breasts, so don’t even let them ask you about it. That is why you should learn to wear the padded breasts.
abeg obey that guy and let’s hear word,who no wear padded bra