
The last time I heard from my baby daddy was in October last year. That was when I was asking for all the money he owed me. He asked me to send him my account number. I did, and till today, I still haven’t received any alert.
My boyfriend used to take money from me. “I need something small for something urgent,” he would say. Sometimes it was GH¢500, other times GH¢1,000, and it kept going like that. I got pregnant, and he himself promised to be a present father. I asked him, “How are you going to do that when you owe me so much? You have to pay that one first.” I called his bluff, so he asked me to calculate all the money he had borrowed from me, and he promised he would pay everything back.
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My parents can’t even look me in the eye twice. They are so disappointed in how everything turned out. I took GH¢8,000 from my mother for him, and I am still yet to get my hands on that money. My relationship with her is going down the drain because of it. We are not on good terms anymore, and I have been left on my own throughout the pregnancy.
Honestly, I have forgotten the total amount that boy owes me. It was always in bits and pieces, so I completely lost count.
The only amount I remember clearly is the GH¢4,500 I borrowed from a friend for him. She has been asking me for her money for months now, and I honestly cannot blame her. Since I have been taking care of myself and all my expenses, I haven’t been able to pay her.
At this point, all I want is for him to pay me the GH¢4,500 I owe my friend, including the interest he promised. As for the rest of the money he owes me, I will deal with that later. I just want to clear my friend’s debt first because the pressure is becoming too much.
I don’t mind taking him anywhere or reporting him to the right authorities if that is what it will take for me to recover my money. I helped him out of love and goodwill, but today I am the one suffering because of it. The pain this man has caused me is unbearable.
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So, I am not only here to cry about what I have done for love. I am also here to ask for advice. If anyone knows the right steps I can take to recover my money, please let me know. I am exhausted, overwhelmed, and I honestly don’t know what else to do.
—Ella
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If you did it for love then let the love heal your hurt
Haaba! So she should use love to defray the debt? Get the police to harass him. There are also professional debt collectors you can consult at a fee. One such is Johnson Complex Ltd at Bubiashie. You may look them up online. Don’t let him get away with it.