My relationship with Precious is only a few weeks old, and we are working well together. It feels like a lifetime with her. I have never felt this way about any woman in my life, and there are enough signs to make me believe that we could become a great couple if the few issues that worry me are properly addressed.

So, Precious is a primary school dropout because of a broken home, but she speaks better English than many SHS graduates I know. She is very well learned, resourceful, and smart.

I have the means to make her my wife within a year, and that is exactly what I plan to do. However, this is where my worry begins.

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She does not enjoy sex. She has been suffering from amenorrhea for the past six years and, according to her, she lost her previous relationship because of it. She said he left because he was frustrated with the whole thing. He would nag and nag until one day they broke things off. Also, from what she says, it has something to do with her first relationship aside from the diagnosis, of course.

I have promised myself that I will stand by her, support her, and help her through this journey until she gets better. But as I am standing here, I find myself asking difficult questions. What if I do not get the result I am hoping for? What if things remain exactly the same?

I am a very sexually active man, and I am also very family oriented. If things don’t change, how certain can I be that I will still be able to stay with her and be fulfilled in the relationship?

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If there is anyone here who has experience with amenorrhea, or is still having it, especially where it affected sexual intimacy, how was it treated? I believe that if this condition is properly addressed, she may begin to feel more comfortable with her sexuality, and that is the only thing I feel is missing from my sweet Precious.

She deserves the very best, and I genuinely want to do right by her. So, elders, please help me. What should I do at this point?

—Akwasi
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