So the guys who propose to a lady and never show up again nu what makes them do that? Is it that you want to test the lady in question or you just want to test your proposal skills to see if it’s effective? I just can’t get my head around it and this is not the first time this is happening to me.

I met this man and a few weeks later he proposed to me. He proved to be a gentleman and looked like a man I could build a future with so I didn’t delay and said yes to his proposal. Days after the proposal, this man started playing hide and seek with me. He won’t pick up my calls and won’t answer my numerous text messages. It’s not as if I forced him to propose to me oo. I didn’t hold a gun to his head and say, “Propose or I shoot.”

You looked at me and I appealed to you so you decided to shoot your shot. Now that I’ve accepted your proposal, you’re running from me. What’s wrong with this one? You know what? I won’t let this slide. Whether he likes it or not, I’m his girlfriend. Agreement is agreement. So Mr. Man, wherever you are, I’m coming for you. You better come and finish what you started, if not, I’ll sue you for deception or love fraud or whatever the law will permit.

You cannot come and tickle my heart and go freely like that. What is that? I repeat, come and finish what you started.” My heart was doing fine until you came and tickled it with your sweet words and fine character. Now that my heart is beating for you, you want to run? If you don’t come, I will show you what it means when the Bible says, “The violent taketh it by force.”

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I’m not desperate. It’s you who started it. We haven’t started the journey but you want to leave me in the middle…no, don’t do that. I’m a fine girl with a fine character. Trust me, everything will be alright when you date me.

Guys, wish me luck. I want to bring you a Sunday-worthy update in future or you say it’s not worth it to pursue a man like that?

—Anita

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