I am a lady of 35 years. I have been praying for a while now for a marital breakthrough. On a countless number of occasions, I have had a one-on-one conversation with God. I told God the kind of partner I want. One of them is to be a person who is strong in the Lord. Even a pastor. I will be okay with that. I do not have a problem being an Osofo Maame.

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For two months now, I have been having a strong feeling that our youth pastor might be my soulmate. His name keeps ringing in my mind. I just have this strong urge about him.

Some days back, I had a dream. In the dream, we had gone to church. After church, the youth pastor was searching for an apartment to rent. The landlord was going to show him one of the rooms, and he called me to come along with him to check the room. In the dream, I was wondering why he did not call any other lady but me. I had this dream when I least expected it. I was not even thinking about him when I slept. So it became a wake-up call for me.

On the 25th of October, around 11pm to midnight, I was up praying towards my marriage. The youth pastor was not even my focus. I was just praying to God to connect me to my ordained soulmate. I said, “God, connect me. Wherever my soulmate is, wherever he is hiding, whatever is blocking his way to me, take it out. Clear the road so I see him and he sees me.”

I woke up the following day and realised I had a second dream again about the youth pastor. In the dream, a church programme was ongoing. He brought me one-cedi coins, which amounted to thirteen cedis. He also gave me some items. There were four in number, but I do not remember what they were. He told me to hold them for him. In this dream too, I was wondering why he did not give them to any other lady but me. After the programme, I went to him to give him back his things and the coins. But he told me to keep the coins for him. He said he was going to ask about some items in the market to know the price and would add more money to the thirteen cedis before he came for the money. The other items, he asked me to take three and he took one.

These two dreams have got me thinking. Are they related to my marriage? Or are they just mere dreams? Should I brush them off? Or do they have different meanings altogether?

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There are eight associate pastors in our church. They are all married except the youth pastor. Our head pastor sometimes teases him when the need arises. I am very sure he has spoken to him several times about marrying, but it seems like he just does not want to marry now. Or he does not feel ready, if I am not mistaken. But he is capable of getting married.

I am wondering why I have this strong urge about him, plus the two dreams I had. What does it mean? No one even has it in mind that I might be his future wife. I also do not see myself as someone he would even choose when he is ready to settle down. I know God’s ways are not our ways. It does not mean I am looking down on myself, but that is how things look. Some of the ladies are directly involved with him because of their positions in the church. So I feel, even if he will pick someone as his soulmate, it might not be me.

I am someone who goes to church, closes, and goes home. I see him and greet him, and he asks me how I am faring. And that is all. He does not even look my way. So I am wondering why I have this strong urge about him and these dreams.

Please, your advice and opinions will really be of great help to me. Should he be my focus when praying concerning my marriage? Or is it just a mere dream, and I should not be bothered? Or do the dreams have meanings far different from what I am thinking?

I prayed again, and I had a third dream about him. I saw him in the dream, but I do not remember what actually happened. I just saw him. I had a fourth dream. We were standing outside and had formed a circle. Prayer was ongoing, and he was delivering some people. Before that dream, I prayed to God to let me meet him on my way to work the following morning if he is truly the one for me. Lo and behold, on my way going to work, I saw his car heading in my direction. He blew the car horn to prompt me and waved at me. I was surprised because when I asked for this sign, I was not serious about it honestly. I keep asking myself whether it is a mere coincidence or a sign from God.

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Note that we are in the same location but stay in different places. He uses the same road I use when going to work because he lives around. I do not remember the last time I saw him on the road until that day.

I had a fifth dream. In the dream, he knelt down with his hands raised up and was praying. I had a sixth dream. In the dream, he was the one leading the choir. I was accompanying a friend who was part of the choir to another church to do something. It was not clear what she was doing, but she realized she was taking long. She asked me to go back, but I told her I would wait till she finished. I did not want to go because I was shy, since the youth pastor was the one leading the choir.

I have had these dreams about the same person over and over again. Are these dreams really related to my marriage? Or do they have different meanings? Should he be my focus when praying about my marriage?

—Marya

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