I don’t know what’s wrong with me, but when I don’t have a girlfriend, I feel scared and alone. It makes me feel like no one wants me in this world, so I try harder and put myself in the way of women. Once someone says yes to me, my emotions switch, and I want to be alone again.

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My first girlfriend left me because I was selfish. The next girlfriend stayed with me for over two years but cheated through it all. It wasn’t her fault. I forced her to stay with me when she wanted to leave, so she cheated her way out. The next one who came tried her best to take me to places where we could have fun. Once we were there, I wanted to come home.

I couldn’t spend a full weekend with her because she was all over the place. She left me. And before she left, she said, “Marry your shadow. You don’t need a woman.”

Once she was out, I went out looking for another. I have Jane now. I told her my problem. She said she was OK, but I can see she’s only tolerating me.

She would call and ask, “Are you in the right mood to have me around?” I would say yes, and then a few hours later, my mood would change. She would sense it and say, “I’m leaving. See you again when you want to see me.”

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We’ve dated for five months. I don’t think we will make it to a year. She’s already cracking up, and it shows in her demeanor.

Who do I need to talk to? Or what do I need to do to be better than this? Don’t tell me to see a psychologist. I spoke with one. I couldn’t wait to leave her presence. It’s that bad.

—Fred

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