I’m stuck between a rock and a hard place. Either way I turn, I know I’m going to hurt. If I hold on to this man, my heart will end up completely shattered. If I leave, I might feel like I’m losing my mind for a while, but at least he won’t be my burden to carry anymore. Before I make my final decision, though, I really need to ask a vital question.
For those of you in relationships, how often do you actually talk to your partner? Should it be every single day, or just whenever you feel like it?
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I’ve been in a relationship for two years, but I’m completely exhausted and drained. This guy constantly tells me he’s busy. We barely speak at all. He can easily go a week, a full month, or even longer without giving me a simple call, and he acts like there is nothing wrong with that.
Whenever I complain, he turns it back on me. He says I’m impatient, that I don’t understand him, and that I’m just bothering him. He uses his job as a mining engineer as an excuse for everything. Yet, the moment he wants sex, he suddenly finds the time to call and ask me to meet up. As soon as that’s over, he disappears again.
I’ve brought this up so many times, but he simply doesn’t care. Nothing ever changes. Am I really overreacting for wanting basic communication, or is it time for me to pack up and move on? He doesn’t do anything for me either. We’re just floating along, barely talking.
Is There A Man Out There Who Doesn’t Cheat?
Please give me your honest advice, even if you have to be harsh so I finally get the motivation to let go. I am hurting, and he couldn’t care less. His only excuse is that he’s a busy person, that this is just his nature, and that he doesn’t have time to entertain a partner when he’s in a relationship.
— Perfect
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1. He’s never too busy to make time for sex.
2. He has personality disorder affecting his commitment to you ( find out how relates to other people)
3. He doesn’t find you interesting enough to have intriguing/ intelligent conversations with. Could be the other way round though – which I doubt. Not judging though.
5. Save the sex you both have, he doesn’t find the NEED to keep you around for any other reason.
So please ask yourself, excluding the sex what benefit are you to him that he genuinely NEEDS.
Please think straight and clear. Don’t let your emotions cloud your judgement.
Doesn’t he eat……..
Madam you are dating yourself wai
Relationship without communication dier aden?
Move on right now
Sincerely speaking, he’s using you to satisfy is sexual urges, period.
He wants no emotional, financial and strings attached to the relationship.
Just walk away and block/delete his lines.
Honestly, it’s hard but you will be fine and also be grateful, because he’s wasting your precious time my sister.
Move on without explanation because he will justify himself if you seek for closure.
A relationship like yours can’t work for me. I can’t even go a day without talking to my girlfriend. Being in constant contact all day is my preference. I want to be texted all day even when I’m busy. How long would it take to reply to a text??? Your dude isn’t that into you missy. Check out of this relationship for your own good please
You’re Perfect so I’ll tell you, You’re in relationship alone, you’re just a booty call. And this is a truth, as to if you should move or stay?
You have to decide to stay as booty call no expectations or move on.
Dear perfect
Sorry to say this but your in a relationship alone
That man has someone who has attention and your not the one
Walk away, it hurts but it won’t kill
Your stronger than you think
Better a broken relationship than broken marriage. Run for your life. You deserve someone better.
Live your name dear… How can Perfect be living in an imperfect relationship? Sister it seems you also like these and that’s what has gotten you glued, if not, anka you dieɛ tell me why you can’t leave. Try another dick and see if you’ll still choose the engineer….
Here is the corrected and punctuated version:
Honest opinion: like someone commented, “A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.” It’s not going to work. You are clearly two different people, and truly, there are people who don’t know how to communicate and people who can relate and get along with them. Clearly, you are not the type to relate to such a personality.
Whether he is a saint or a demon, you two won’t work. Call the relationship off and find someone you are compatible with. He will eventually find his.