I have a very big problem that is getting on my last nerves.
I am married to one of the most beautiful women on earth, whom I really love, adore, desire, and cherish so much, more than words can ever say. We have two children together. I already have three children from my previous marriage.
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Wifey is a very good woman, the kind of woman I can walk beside with my eyes closed and trust that she will never let me fall into the pit of hell. There is no me without her. That is why it hurts me so much what I keep doing to that good, good woman. She doesn’t deserve it at all. At all.
I cheat.
Not a small kind of cheat. A very big one. It is sort of embedded in me. It has become a part of me, and I don’t even know how to explain it.
But if you go and tell her right now that I cheat on her, she will chase you out of our house and then call me to tell me what you just came to say. She thinks it is impossible. Not doable. That is because of how transparent we are with each other.
She knows all my passwords. I know all her passwords. We are like peas in a pod. We tell each other almost everything.
But somehow, despite all of that, whenever I go out, I have the tendency to sleep with almost anything in a skirt.
The good thing, if there is even any good thing in all of this, is that I am very careful about protecting myself, so I don’t get infected or bring any infection home to my wife.
I want to stop cheating on my wife.
I Called My Girlfriend And Another Man Answered The Phone
She is a good woman. We are both financially stable, so it is not as if I am out there because she cannot support me or because our home is lacking anything. That is what makes this whole thing even more painful. I have a good wife, a beautiful family, and a peaceful home, yet I keep doing the one thing that could destroy everything. Teach me how to stop cheating on my sweet wife. If you have any advice, any experience, any story I can learn from, please share it with me. I need something that can help me break this cycle before I ruin the best thing that has ever happened to me.
— Solomon
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Chale, this really really is where those who suggest religious advice are needed! Anyway, thanks for opening up!
1. It all starts with you.
2. Let us go back in time. Most of our seggsual misconducts in our adult life can be traced back to our formative years.
2a. How did you spend your childhood and teenage and with whom?
2b. Most people like this were exploring seggsually at a younger age and did not get anyone to tell them to keep chaste.
2c. Did you get seggsual information from peers or from porn?
2d. If you started experimenting with seggs only when you got money, then that can also be a factor.
2e. Were you seggsually exploited by female relatives (like sisters, cousins, auntis, grannies, etc.) or trusted female figures (like teachers, neighbors, family friends, etc.)?
3. I am sure, you are one of those men who assumes “the man is the head of the house”…please o! To start with, it is not like that o! You fit be chicken of the family and they use you for suya! Such mindsets can also feed the ego of men to reach out for everyone they can lay hands on for seggs.
4. I suppose you should come clean to her or someone you trust, who can inform her on your behalf. Be willing to be more honest about your seggsual preference. Sometimes these things happen because we fail to discuss our seggsual preferences early with our suitors.
5. Yes we all like variety, it is built into our biological makeup as humans but it takes training to actually stick to one toy.
Not sure if my comment helps
Pray about to God, tell him you want to stop and He will surely deliver you from it…
Have you forgotten your name is Solomon
Please pray about the name too as well.
It is a contributing factor. All the men named Solomon i have come across are like that
Even the first carrier of the name Solomon we know in the Bible had the same problem because he had wealth and that problem became his downfall. Be watchful
First and foremost you have taken the biggest step by recognizing your problem.
2 stop flirting with anyone
3 change your friends
4 If you are the type that is always socializing cut and start being with your family even if you feel like taking one or two bottles take it home.
5 check phone contacts and all unscrupulous elements in them
6 the most important, pray to God for strength to apply All the above and to resist going back to it
Lastly tell your wife and beg for forgiveness and help to apply all this information
It is been 10 years Jesus freed me from The Spirit of lust.
It is a spiritual bondage that you can not break with human knowledge but The Spirit of The Lord.
Put your knees and ask help from God.
Open up your heart to Him and genuinely ask for His help. He will show up.
You are just not a focused person in life and u have misplaced your priority that’s one of the reasons u have 4 kids from a previous affair.U have a good woman and all it take to be a good wife,so what more do u want.U are living like biblical Solomon who is your name sake.There is nothing like realignment of your life.How will u feel if your sister or daughter is being treated asuch.Running after women and anything in skirt is not the way to success and having a stable home.Your wife has been devoted to u,give her same commitment and bring happiness into your family.A word is enough for the wise.
The antidote to your problem is Christ Jesus. Surrender yourself to him and break free from friends who are into that. Read Romans 3:23; 6:23; Matthew 11:28-29; 2 Corinthians 5:17; Romans 8:1; 12:1-2. Change your cycle of friends and surround yourself with friends who will help you to be truthful to yourself, your wife and God.
Bro, please change your name to Fidelis
Michel. Fedelis and Solomon deir like 6 and 7
I thought they’ll insult you in the comments. I know how it is to stop. One day, your wife will catch you and we’ll all see how messed up this is. Restrain yourself gradually desist from women. Or just picture those women when you sleep with your wife. That’s easier.