Right now, I am eight months pregnant. I live with my boyfriend, his mother, and his father.
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I do basically everything for myself. I thought that living with them would take things off my plate, that they would help around with the arrival of their grandchild. But oh boy, was I wrong. I cook my own food. I wash my own clothes. It takes a lot of grit for me to do it. Just washing my own things is stressful enough, but my boyfriend expects me to wash his things as well. I don’t. I can’t.
Even when I am completely exhausted, I still have to either cook or find money to buy food from outside. If I don’t, I will starve. I am not saying they do nothing for me at all. They do what they can. But if you are pregnant and in my state, you will understand that providing me with food only once a day is not enough. So for the rest of the day, I have to find my own meals.
And as for washing my clothes? Not even once has any of them tried to help or step in.
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So here is my question. With a newborn coming, when I will need more help than I have ever needed in my life, would I be wrong to decline this marriage after I give birth and just walk away?
Don’t marry him . What you see is what you get. Besides what you see becomes double in marriage. You are better on your own.
I completely agree with this comment
You won’t be wrong!
Your feelings are valid. Move on. Work hard and be independent enough to take care of yourself and the child… Ther eis so much life ahead of you.
My dear run as fast as your legs can take you. Marriage will be worst.
I don’t even understand this woman.
1. He’s not your husband but just a boyfriend.
2. You’re living with him and his parents that are probably aged.
3. You expect them to provide you with a 3 square meal, cook it and also help you out with laundry
Did they impregnate you? Your focus should be entirely on the man that impregnated you not those poor folks. Don’t bring them into this issue, if he’s not helping you then he just doesn’t care about you. I wouldn’t advise you to marry him but how will you cope with the baby alone or will you leave it there and run away? They have tried their best so let them be.
I did a quick search for the opposite of Liliput. It’s Brobdingnagian, and that’s what you are. Is she the first woman to get pregnant or is she “special needs”? Haaba! What sense of entitlement is this. Yes, your partner must show better concern but get a grip of yourself! You need the exercise unless bed rest is advised at antenatal! Snap out of this sense of helplessness or it will not augur well with you!
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Don’t you have family to go to, to take care of you if you see that as a right.
When you were enjoying, were they part?
Go to your family until you become a wife and you will be your husband’s responsibility; not the whole family