This is what’s currently going on in my brother’s marriage. Due to certain situations surrounding the whole story, I would be very brief and not go into details. It sounds like a bad comedy or a joke without a punchline.
They married for five years without a child. The wife was troubled so she hopped from church to church looking for a baby. God gives so before their sixth anniversary, they had a child. Now, by God’s grace, they have three children.
My brother needed proof of paternity for legal reasons so he did DNA tests on his kids. It turned out that the first child isn’t his. My brother is very attached to this child so you can imagine how the news shattered him into pieces.
It raised a lot of questions that his wife had to answer. His wife swore heaven and earth that she had never cheated on him since they got married and that the DNA could be a mistake. There was nothing wrong with the DNA so she was texted too. She’s the mother. She didn’t cheat. She had never known any other man but my brother isn’t the father of the first child. What happened?
Her explanation is that she got the baby from God through a pastor and that could be the reason the child’s DNA can’t be traced to the father. Does that even make sense?
She visited a lot of pastors during those days so she says she can’t pinpoint the pastor whose prayer came to pass for her to have that child. Now we have a second Jesus in our house.
My brother is totally broken. He cries when no one is watching. He loves his wife and wants closure to the issue but his wife keeps telling him fairytales with a dash of children’s fantasy.
To open your mouth to say I love you, Is kind of weird
Maybe the children we get from church are not really ours. Fathers, please do the checks. If your wife moved from church to church looking for a child, the child might not be yours. It’s strange, isn’t it?
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Since she is the mother den the father is some one else. She shd just confess the truth to ur brother n be free.
When women are desparate for children!!
People don’t understand why HIV cases are higher in women. You can imagine what will have happened if she through the ‘prayers’ of these many pastors brought home STDs including HIV. Your brother should be bold and throw her out for infedility. The check of it.
She slept the pastor simple as ABC . Asem oo.
If she hadn’t said that story I would have said the child might have been switched at birth. But I think she slept with the pastor
She said she didn’t sleep with any man so why can’t people just accept her statement? Let’s give her the benefit of the doubt.
My dear tell your brother not to worry. He should live like there is no infidelity in his marriage. We are humans so definitely we will err but forgiveness is divine. Divorce is not the answer to all things. His wife allowed her desperation for kids to become her weakness, so definitely the pastor slept with her by saying God said I should give you a child by sleeping with you. As we all know women have weaker minds. As for the kid he should continue loving the kid. When he and his wife was desperately looking for kids and didn’t get it immediately it was a test so definitely he should view this one as a test too. There is this saying the devil you know is better than the angel you do not know. If he divorces his wife and marries another what is the guarantee this new wife won’t do same or worse. My dear we all know how our dear wives gives more relevance and belief to pastors because of their weak mind. All the times these pastors in the name of God use the weakness and nativity of our wives to break people’s marriages. My dear you have said so your self your in law is childish both mentally and physically so the only thing I can tell you is that your brother should be the bigger one and let things go. I know it’s not easy but in due time you will understand it and be happy again. He should not allow anger ,bitterness, sorrow etc cause him to cheat ,disrespect his wife and worst still file for a divorce. These are all the test of life . Besides even if the child is not his biologically, its his physically because he is what the child knows as its father. So he should behave and be the father it’s needs. I know that many people will say divorce but my dear a second chance is all you need to make things right,to make dead things come back to life. You will never hear that a female pastor has slept with someone’s husband under the pretext of God said I should do it but it’s always the pastor sleeping with people’s wives because of how weak women are. This is because men are more of a logical being and even if they are they apply spirituality and sense so they are never found in these kind of situations. This is the time for your brother to hold his wife and tell that he has forgiven her .Time to be the pillar that holds the marriage now more than ever because if he doesn’t his kids life and that of the marriage will be ruined. He should take things one step at a time. Remember there is always a calm after a storm. If there is no calm after it then it’s not a storm. All this will come to pass. He should seek help from therapist and if still from a man he trust and look up to . Many people have found themselves in this same situation and had conquered it so definitely he will and can overcome it too with the help of God and also by forgiving his wife.