It started with a comment that should have meant nothing, but the two of us made it into something until it caused a crack between us. My husband had posted …
Because of My Husband, I Am Standing at the Edge of Breaking Tradition
I have seen it all, and I know the end, so why do I want to try it? I have seen women cheat and observed the consequences for their families. …
I Took a Loan to Pay My Girlfriend’s Fees, Then She Showed Up With a New iPhone
My girlfriend was using a new iPhone—the latest one that comes in orange. She’s not that rich to be able to afford the phone, so she told me her uncle …
Aside From Smelling Like an Arabian Prince, He Makes Me Shiver at the Thought of Marriage
My boyfriend talks a lot. In a world that believes talking a lot is the place of a woman, my boyfriend, as a man, talks so much, a yapper. He …
I Called Off My Wedding After Hearing What His Mother Said About Me
A week before our wedding, we had a huge fight in the presence of his mom, who had been living with him and interfering in everything. I’d always known him …
My Husband Pushed Me to Start a Business, Then Divorced Me Because of It
The job I was doing didn’t pay but used me the way farmers use donkeys in the field. I came home tired every day, but my salary couldn’t afford a …
My Pastor Told Me to Leave My Husband Because We Were Spiritually Incompatible
When my pastor told me to leave my husband, I thought I had misheard him. It was after a counseling session that was supposed to save our marriage. He told …
10 Years Later, My Husband Still Doesn’t Wear the Pants in This Family
I met Kudjo many years ago. We were two people who found love in each other, who completed each other’s sentences and made an intentional effort in creating ourselves a …
I Tried Stealing Someone Else’s Husband, Then I Realized I Can’t Steal From a Tiger
When I met Kwame, he was already married. I knew it from the very first day. There was no confusion, no lies about being separated, and no excuses about sleeping …
This Marriage May Be Ending Because of My Wife’s Twin Sister
When I was growing up, I heard all sorts of strange stories about twins. In some communities, twins were seen as bad luck even among witches. There were tales of …
She Asks Me for Money for Sanitary Pads But Pays Her Ex’s Rent
Before we started dating, she told me about her ex, Kofi, and how badly their relationship had ended. She said Kofi was emotionally abusive and physically toxic to her. She …
My Marriage Ended the Day My Wife Heard God’s Voice
I knew something was wrong in my marriage the day I realized I was competing with God for my wife’s attention. That sounds strange, I know, but that was exactly …












