I always thought heartbreak was something distant—a storm that happened to other people, on other timelines, in stories told by friends over drinks. I never thought it would find me, …
My Wife Wants a Confession for a Sin I Never Committed
Last night, my wife went through my phone while I was asleep. She read my chats with her younger sister, Julianna, and with Lucy, a National Service person at my …
I Should Have Ignored That Message in the Group Chat
I met Akos in our class group chat. Everyone ignored her message. I almost did too, but something in me refused. She was lost, confused, behind in everything. I didn’t …
I Introduced Fire Into My Marriage And The Fire Is Burning My Marriage Down
It didn’t start badly. It started with me noticing how low the fire had become in our marriage. Our marriage felt like a pot on a dying coal stove: barely …
The Woman I Want to Marry is Marrying Another Man
Less than twenty days ago, I lost my first love and only love. She is a doctor, a poet, and a writer who graduated from a university in Cairo two …
I Have Dreamt About My Pastor Six Times Since I Started Asking God For A Husband
For a long time, marriage has been my biggest prayer point. I am 35, but I don’t have a man in my life. Every night, I tell God the kind …
My Mother’s Secret Is About to Shame Two Families and I’m the One in the Middle
I never grew up with my mother the way most children do. While other kids had their mothers, I was always with other people. Always. Even for the short while …
I Miss My Ex Who Gave Me Gonorrhea
Sometimes, I wonder why society only talks about female hormones—how women act when they’re ovulating. They talk about mood swings, and why a woman might want love today and space …
When My Wife Cheated, I Forgave Her But She’s The One Asking For Divorce
Grief is strange. It doesn’t always come from death. Sometimes it comes from abandonment, from betrayal, from the slow, painful tearing apart of a life you built with someone you …
Women from That Side Showed Me Pepper Until God Showed Me Mercy
I grew up in a middle-class family. We weren’t rich, but we were never poor either. The one thing we were sure of was at least two meals a day. …
I Waited For Him For Ten Years But He Married Another Woman
When I finish telling my story, I know some people will ask why I stayed so long or why I kept trying to make him choose me. All I can …
Is It Love When Your Boyfriend Treats You Like a Buy-One-Get-One-Free Promotion?
I’ve never been the type to demand things from a man. I wasn’t raised that way. If you love me, show it. If you want to give me something, let …












