
He traveled on Wednesday. On Saturday evening, his friend sent his wedding photos. He was in a black suit and holding the hand of his bride. Immediately I saw the photo, my heart missed several beats and I started feeling weak. I called his friend, “Were you aware he was getting married?” He answered, “I’m equally surprised as you are.”
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We had dated for two years. We’d had our ups and downs. Even before he traveled that Wednesday, we were not on good terms, but nothing showed he was engaged or seeing someone else, let alone having a wedding. I started calling his phone all evening; he didn’t answer. So I sent him the photo his friend sent me and added a long voice note asking him to explain. Again, he didn’t answer. He left me on read.
On Sunday morning, I sent him another voice note insulting him, calling him names, cursing him and his new marriage. I said a lot of things out of pain, especially because he read my messages and didn’t respond.
On Sunday evening, he responded, “So you’ve been with me all this while but you don’t trust me? Is that how you’ll choose a lie over me and make me the devil? It’s alright. I’m married. Thanks for the curses.”
The whole thing was a prank he planned with his friend. He was the best man and not the groom. They took that photo specifically to pull a prank on me, and I fell for it.
I thought when the prank was over, the prankster and the pranked come together and laugh at the joke? Ours is different. There was no joke. My boyfriend has left the relationship because of the things I said in the voice notes and the fact that I didn’t trust him enough to be on his side, at least until I could hear his side of the story. He said I concluded too early and that a relationship without trust can’t thrive.
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I tried. God knows I did. I even apologized for falling for the prank. He made me take my words back only to tell me he can’t continue loving a woman who has such curses in her mouth. He wanted a reason to leave, I know, and I carelessly gave him one. Wherever he is, I hope he’s enjoying life and love.
—Louisa
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Don’t feel bad for falling into his trap. As u said, he’s already planning for a chance to leave you. Such prank is devillish and anybody could fall for it. He pranked to test your trust, meaning he never trusted you 100%. He’s now turning it on you by claiming you have trust issue.
Stop apologising to him and shower urself with love. You deserve better.
He was looking for an excuse to leave you
This isn’t about trust joor
He’d planned leaving u soonest n that’s exactly what he could pull off. Dat was quite a silly Joke there
It is not you who don’t deserve him but the other way round.
God is saving you from the pain of living your marriage life with one who is unreasonable.
The depth of the prank tells how low he thinks and painful as it may be that you lost him, I believe strongly God saved you tonnes of latter pain
Move on and don’t go into any relationship that will last more than two years before marriage again