After my wife gave birth, she was in a very bad shape and wouldn’t take good care of herself, so I fell in love with a national service lady in my office. It was a very bad decision I took, but at that time it felt like an escape from a wife who wouldn’t take care of herself to appeal to me. The national service girl became very possessive and started acting like my wife.

My wife found out, and I still suspect it’s this same national service girl who sent the evidence to my wife, because who else would know all the things I was doing with her in such detail?

My wife was broken and deeply hurt. I tried to work hard to bring the marriage back to normal, but my wife pulled the plug and collapsed the marriage. We are currently in court. Yes, I cheated, but she said a lot of lies that brought us to where we are now.

A little less than a year into our separation, I don’t know what my wife did to herself, she now looks like a model. Everything about her has changed, and she’s dressing well too. We met one day, and I told her she was looking beautiful; she insulted me.

I don’t want to go through the divorce. It’s not my idea. It’s her idea, and I want to drag it until she changes her mind and comes back to the marriage. We are crooked but not totally broken, and I believe we can work things out. But the question on my mind is, why didn’t she change for me when I complained, but is now changing when no one is there?

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Didn’t she love me enough to make adjustments for me? I knew she could do it, but she always gave me excuses. Why is she looking beautiful now that we are not together? Or is she doing that to attract other men now that I’m no longer in the frame?

—Danny

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