I read the story of a woman whose husband pays other women for intimacy, and I decided to share my own. I want to say my truth.
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I have been married for nine years, and we have three beautiful children. My wife is a very beautiful and hardworking woman. When we met, she was a virgin, but she was eager to learn how to be adventurous with me in the bedroom. After our first child, she changed completely. She went from being my baddie to Mary the Virgin.
Once she asked me a question that shattered me. “What at all do you get from sex that you crave it so badly?” Six years later, those words still hurt. That question, and the emptiness that followed, led me to cheat. She found out eventually, which caused unnecessary fights and broken hearts. I am not a good liar, so she always knows when I am not being truthful.
The truth is, I just want her to meet me halfway. She can go a whole month without intimacy if I do not ask. And when I do, she is either too tired or not in the mood. The only time she seemed to enjoy being close was during her ovulation, but recently, even that has faded. This is not the woman I married.
Is There A Man Out There Who Doesn’t Cheat?
I know many men regret cheating, but sometimes it is hard not to feel alone. Wives, please understand, intimacy does not stop because you have given birth. If you need help with house chores so you can have energy for your husband, please say so. Matters of the bedroom are a big deal in marriage, but too often they are trivialized. This does more harm than good.
It feels disrespectful to stay with a woman just for sex. But I also wish my wife, Grace, would see how much this means to me, how much she means to me, and meet me where I am.
I have spoken my truth
—David
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How about you also meet her where she is? You stated that you’ve been married for 9 years so your children are still young and require much attention. She must be genuinely tired having to take care of them and everything in the house. Trust you me, that alone can turn off a woman’s need for intimacy. Try and help her take care of some chores in the house. Take her on dates and set the mood. Romance her. She needs to take off the stress from carrying the pregnancies to delivering and taking care of the children for the past 9 years. Make her feel safe again and I bet you she’ll be the one asking for it.
Grace abeg meet oga half way,in fact overtake him if possible abi which Kain wahala b dis.
“He’s hardworking, help with the children, when i need help n ask he will do it or we jokely fight n he does, he’s financially supportive, I’m very hardworking,I’m like hygiene freek- want my home to be that beautiful like those of the ‘ Nigerian Movies homes, very beautiful decorated serene. So I’m always packing, repacking, arranging, rearranging, cleaning to make the medium apartment neat.
Even when tired, during recovering of once threatened accident, i still want to give my whole body in enjoying 😉 our seksual life but noooo- he gives full time 2 his Female friends, talking, chatting as early as 6a.m and as late as 11 midnight most painful 😥 is even the married women, become a “PROFESSIONAL COUNSELOR” to such women who complains or pour out exact emotional torture he makes ME pass through n such I’ve complains, turned me 2 a nag n singing same tunes of painful songs 2 him yet expect BEDMATICS PLEASURE ” — CHEAT in different forms, move on without apologies.
He’s just very bad in lying just like you 😆
As @ now I know everything he does n w3n he tells the truth I sincerely know when he’s”
I fell for the RED flags especially when he told me ” I’m not an outing type” herhh😆😆 w3n u r in love errr it indeeeeeeed blinds you koaraa. The way he enjoys outing errr ”
Bro for what I know, wives precisely will ignore you husbands s3kshually for you ignoring us emotionally, socially, but expect us 2 give u ur ” under desire”
We make luv with our all exactly in truth in luv in sincerity that’s why you married us not jux your s3kshual tool cuz we are not RUNS GIRLS.
Meet us full way jux as you do for your female friends
If ur wife has complained about certain behaviours of urs that make her not want u in bed, you do ur best in all aspects in supporting, if u’ve told her abt ur problems n she doesn’t fantasised in making luv thennnnn🤔🤔🤔…….