My problem is big, I know, but I know you people are here so here goes. It’s about my husband. Before we got married, he used to tell me about all the women he came across. He would go into such detail, right down to how he got them into his bed, how it ended, and how he got them back into his arms again.

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Whenever he told me these things, I felt very uncomfortable. I did not expect him to tell me all this, but I would listen until he finished. Afterwards, all the things he talked about would run through my mind and I would get so angry I could not control myself, but I would not tell him.

Now that we are married, he still tells me about his escapes with women from his past. Aaahh, I do not think it is necessary for him to give me all this information, especially the very graphic and detailed parts of what he experienced. It really hurts me most of the time. What really pains me is that he is the only man I have ever known. If I was like him, would he be happy to sit and listen to me tell him how other men used to do me? I do not think so.

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Please, kindly help me. Is this normal? Am I overreacting? Every day he opens his mouth and says things of that nature, and the love I have for him in my heart decreases.

—JY

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