The woman my husband is cheating with is married. I picked her number from my husband’s phone and checked her WhatsApp profile. She was wearing a wedding ring. Because I had her number, days later she popped up on my TikTok feed. She had a family video where her two children and husband featured.
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After collecting all this evidence, I showed it to my husband so he’d know I’ve done the work and have the proof. He denied it and called me insecure. He warned me against checking his phone. Because of that, he changed his password.
I texted the lady on WhatsApp. She told me I should deal with my husband and leave her alone. She blocked me.
A few months later, she made a TikTok post thanking God for a safe delivery. She showed pregnancy photos and videos with her husband. I told myself, “From everything I know, this child will be for my husband. It’s possible.”
I started studying my husband’s fingers anytime he typed his password. It was hard, but nothing beats diligence. I got it. And the message I read that day was only three hours old. My husband asked, “How’s my daughter?” The woman responded, “I thought we agreed we wouldn’t talk about this here.”
Do I need any more evidence than this?
We have two kids. Both are boys. I’ve never seen him adore them the way he was all over the phone talking about their daughter. The lady said, “I hope you delete it.” My husband responded, “It’s auto-delete, remember?”
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I have evidence this time. It’s captured on my phone with all the details, but I’m scared to ask questions. I don’t know what he will do if he finds out I have this information. I’m not sure if I want a divorce, so I don’t know if I should involve a third party in the issue. I can’t talk about it, and I also can’t keep calm about it. It’s like a pineapple in my clothes—prickly, but I can’t throw it away.
How do I handle a case like this? The best approach for me would have been to speak to the lady’s husband, but I don’t know where to find him or how to find him. Where do I go from here?
—Darkoa
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Of what benefit is it bringing in a third party? Of what benefit is it telling her husband about it?
Why was your husband outside looking for what you have free of charge????….come back for more advice after self introspection.
Thank you.
If it had been the woman’s husband who was asking for advice, would you have asked him to examine himself to understand why his wife was cheating on him? You’re just randomly showing off your toxic misogyny. Why would you go out of your way to absolve her adulterous husband of all fault, while simultaneously blaming the victim?
No matter how much of a failure she is as a wife, nothing excuses his actions. If she’s really that bad then he should divorce her instead of impregnating another man’s wife and allowing her to pass off the child on her unsuspecting husband.
Dorkoa, there’s no need to advise you because you’re not ready to take action. Your husband betrayed you in the worst way possible, is currently gaslighting you and you’re still here asking foolish questions. Almost any action that you take apart from silence could end up imploding your marriage, but the real question is whether you have anything worth hanging on to. Your husband has cheated on you, had a child with another woman and is shamelessly unapologetic about it. How low can your self esteem be? Advise yourself.
I was once in that position but the guys never learn anyway nomatter how much drama you bring they will continue to see each other especially now that there is a child one which u dont have……
I could tell you how to find the husband because i have done it before too but then i stopped to think 🤔 if this man divorces his wife then his wife becomes the full time side chick to my husband then thats worse think about it that way kkk its a very shitty situation….
Then came the part abt asking him if you ask him he has 90prcnt chances of striking and lashing out on you for snooping around his phone agaaaain….and he will deny any bit of evidence you have.
If he doesnt deny he will officially let you know that a woman has managed to give him a child that you couldn’t give him…trust me its not that you are barren but the part about them being one gender they will always chase and find ways to make you question things and ask God why he dint give you a girl!! #i have girls only too for the record so he probably wanted a boy. I want one too but believe me its not anyones fault kkk so dont stress.
Solution is to either accept and find ways for his sin to eat him alive….show him that you know thats what he has done be so nice to him then later spill it out to make him feel bitter about himself. Or get ready for baby mama drama or perhaps divorce later when you get yourself ready financially and mentally.
Thats betrayal and it hurts.
Hahahahahahah… I don’t know why I am laughing so hard though
You went digging for carcasses
You went 6ft deep and God being so good, you got loads of them, Lol
Now you’ve realized you had no plans on what to do with them and carcasses
are scary also, so you can’t bring them home.
I have only one advise for you; Leave those carcasses in the grave, come out of the grave and dig back the sand on it.
Cover the grave so well that no one gets to notice you were even in the cemetery
Go home and keep quiet like you never saw anything. Even when you sleep and dream about it (which will surely happen) just shake your head “odeshie” and sleep back. Don’t ever mention it to anyone.
Because, any which way you decide to pursue this issue, 99.9% of the damaging effect is going to be on you. For the sake of the children, let this issue remain with you cos they will also suffer the detrimental consequences should you in any means reveal or try to pursue this issue in any way.
Your husband will bring this issue up later himself
Till then, just keep quiet.
What are u people saying? She should keep quiet even with evidence she has, and the risk of infection from a womanizing husband?
Madam involve ur family and get their support to confront him with the proof you have. Don’t let fear or anything keep u perished with an infidel husband. If he proves unruly then walk away. Your health matters as well as your kids’. It’s far better to leave healthy than contract infections all in the name of marriage.
Shalom!
You see all those nonsense that have been giving as advice I’m sure you have brains so use them for once. I was even surprised the very first comment came from a woman too. Another man is evidently being taken as a fool by his wife and you are no different from that man. I hate cowards the most in my life and unfortunately you the writer is one. You are not the one to decide the gender of your kids are you even God? The most annoying part of your write up is I’m not sure I want a divorce. You are not the sinner here and betrayal is one painful thing especially if the person involved shows no remorse. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with you so have the courage to do the needful. May you be guided.
She has clearly stated she’s not sure she wants a divorce! So what’s the point in bringing in a third party? What’s the point in telling the woman’s husband? Her husband will keep cheating and she’ll keep “digging” and sitting in that marriage saying she doesn’t want a divorce.
Let her shut up and continue sitting in that marriage
I was waiting for the Gen Z’s and here they come. Nkwaseafuor!
Do you know what divorce is?
Do you know the aftermath of divorce?
How well do you know the impact of divorce on the nuclear, extended family and society in general?
State the impact of divorce on children involved?
Mmoa! I don’t blame you. You people are turning your head upside down eating feaces from each other’s anus for breakfast and dinner so your brains are full of 5h!t. Make I hear aa “walk away before he brings infections” aboafunu! That infection is better than eating 5h!ts.
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