I am a British man based in Ghana, in a relationship with a Ghanaian woman who travels frequently out of the country for business.

My woman is sophisticated, beautiful, stunning, and financially independent. She is that woman, and I love it so much. The problem is that both genders show interest in her. She is very attractive, and even I notice women crushing on her, including high-profile women.

She has many female friends, but there is this one in particular. She is too clingy, almost obsessive even. I could see it in her eyes. Almost like we are fighting for the same thing.

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I love my woman and would go miles just to get a cup of water for her.

For a very long time, I have had questions, very touchy questions I needed answers to, so one day, out of curiosity, while I was traveling to the States for a business deal, I set up a mini camera in our bedroom. To my surprise, I saw my lady being intimate with her friend. I cannot go into details, use your imagination.

When I returned, I confronted her. She admitted it but told me it was not that deep. We argued about it. That woman knows I love her, and maybe she thought I would not think clearly when she used her prowess as a woman to calm me down, but she did, saying what I saw did not mean much. I love her, and I forgave her, but I am confused. She does not look like someone who would do such things. You know the labels people attach to themselves, as if they are the rainbow, the colours they use. I do not see her as part of that.

Is There A Man Out There Who Doesn’t Cheat?


How can I tell her that I want to be enough for her? She is too beautiful for this kind of situation. Please help me.

—Jayden

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