
I went to spend a night with my girlfriend, and deep in the night she told me her father’s elder brother, the one who took care of her, was coming around, so I should find a place and go. Around 11 p.m. I had travelled from Accra to Ada just to see her. I didn’t know anywhere, but this girl pushed me out of the room and asked me to get a hotel and come the next morning when her uncle was gone.
Something didn’t feel right. How suddenly it happened and how forceful she was about it felt suspicious. So I hung around until I saw the car coming. The man went inside and stayed for a little while, and then I saw both of them stepping out. The proximity didn’t look like the man was family.
I quickly ran to the car before it could move and asked her to give me the room key. The man asked, “Who is this?” She answered, “That’s my elder brother I was talking about.” The man smiled and asked, “How are you?” I asked him, “Do you know me?” He shook his head. I said, “You’re an uncle to my sister, but you don’t know me?”
He looked confused while my girl was trying to cut me off from talking, but I wasn’t going to be quiet. I said, “She told me you’re her uncle, and now she’s telling you I’m her brother. It’s a big family reunion, I guess.” By this time, she was screaming at the top of her voice, asking me what nonsense I was on about. She said, “Leave him, let’s go. He doesn’t know what he’s saying.”
The man had caught on to what I was saying and didn’t know whether to go or stay. I took the keys and walked to the room. A few minutes later, she was back, looking disappointed and angry. I didn’t say a word. I slept while she sat on the sofa thinking.
I Left Him Because He Didn’t Help In The Kitchen
The next morning, when I told her I was leaving, she couldn’t even look me in the face. I stepped out and later went in to collect the phone she was using. I bought it with my own money. I said, “Our uncle has a big car and money. Let him buy you one.”
I haven’t seen her again since that day. Till date, anytime I hear of Ada, my heart skips a beat. I acted cool as if it didn’t hurt, but as I write this, I’m still hurting. Only God knows how I was able to get home without crying in the car.
—Enoch
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Masa you de priii aaba. Just allow enjoy uncle to play his role and play yours jare. There’s nothing as enjoyable as a casual relationship you know about… Charlie for all you know she was playing the man and you’ll end up playing her too. Life wouldn’t be fair anytime soon ooo
So so irresponsible! Don’t you know the implications of your so-called casual relationship. It means you are also in a relationship with the other man and you you are at risk of any diseases he contracts! It’s bad enough you are this reckless but advising Enoch to partake in your stupidity is criminal.