Two years ago, the world brought my childhood friend back to me. Growing up, we were as tight as two people could ever be. My parents knew and loved him, and his parents adored me too. Our friends knew us as one. When the universe brought him back, I was certain it was God answering my prayers of wanting to marry my best friend. So when I saw the way he looked at me, like he wanted to finish me, I indulged him. I did not want him off. I encouraged it and said yes to becoming his girlfriend.

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Like all relationships, we had our problems. We quarreled, we made up, and we promised to do right by each other.

Last year in December, while we were observing the birth of Christ, he took his bags and went to his hometown. I knew it was to unwind from the bustling and hustling here, so I urged him on. “One day, I will go and unwind with you in your hometown,” I told him. When I waved Kojo goodbye and told him to think of me on the bus, I did not know I was waving the love of my life goodbye. I did not know I was waving him into the hands of another woman.

My boyfriend went to his hometown and found another girl, and so he has left me. He sent a message saying we should break up. He has left me. He served me breakfast.

He is moving on the surface of the earth. He does not care the least bit about me anymore, and he is enjoying his life. Meanwhile, I am left alone to deal with the pain, the panic attacks, and the heartache every single day. The kind where my heart feels like it is crushing. I am having a hard time, even though I am trying my best to move on with my life. I listen to songs. I go to watch the children play. I take time to find the beauty in the world, but it is not enough. The emotional, financial, and physical investment, the sacrifices I made just because I saw a future for us together he has thrown everything away like it did not matter. And I am constantly bleeding, all by myself. I was on my own, minding my own business, when he came doing all the right things. He wanted me to be his girlfriend. He asked me to accept him. Now he is making it look like I am the one forcing this love on him, and he does not care what I am going through.

Right now, the help I need is this: if anyone knows any powerful person or any *bedianko* plug to help me snatch him back. When I said yes to him, I swore on my grandmother’s knees that he was going to be my last and only. Here in Accra, love is hard to find. I have sworn this is going to be my very last relationship ever. I am not going to sit back and watch another girl enjoy my man.

Now everything he does just keeps making things worse. He is constantly flaunting his new love and does not even care what effect it has on me. My heart is tired, and I really need this problem solved.

I went to see a seer. She told me the lady’s aunty is behind him treating me this way. She is the one who has collected him for her niece. She said it is a love potion they have on him.

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Anyone with a powerful plug should assist me to solve this problem, please.

Please, I need real solutions that work. Not “move on” or “focus on your life” kind of advice. Because trust me, there is nothing like being able to focus when your heart is shattered and you are barely able to meet your basic needs.

—Browa

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