will my girlfriend cheat on me?

The day everything changed between Luna and me wasn’t the first time she came over to cook for me, but there was something about that day that made the food taste different. We have known each other for over fifteen years now but we were not close for the most part of it. At the time we got close, we were both in relationships. I had a girlfriend I loved more than anything. Our relationship was the best thing going for me and I even envisioned my future with her. However, there was a wide age gap between us. It didn’t bother us but it bothered our families, so they tried everything possible to tear us apart.

I saw the end of my relationship coming but I was powerless to stop it. As my relationship was nearing its impending doom, Luna’s relationship had completely fallen apart. She told me about it when she came over to cook for me after it happened. “It was my fault,” she ranted, “I shouldn’t have spent so much time ignoring him. It made him feel I didn’t care about him, even though I do.”

That day I hugged her and told her everything would be fine. The truth was, I was telling her what I needed to hear myself. She didn’t know that I was having relationship problems. She was going through so much already so I didn’t want to burden her with my own pain. What I  did was keep my doors open for her to visit whenever she felt like it. And every time she visited, she would cook and we’d eat together. It was something that seemed normal until I woke up one morning and realized Luna had cooked her way into my heart. I had gone and fallen in love with her. It was unexpected and insane. “She is getting over a breakup, and so am I. So why am I having these strong feelings for her all of a sudden? How will she take it if I tell her?” These thoughts became a loud voice in my ears whenever Luna came over to my place.

I tried to silence the voices but they only kept getting louder. Then one afternoon she came over to cook again. That was the afternoon that changed everything between us. I don’t know how to explain it but the food tasted like more than food. I felt a connection and a sense of intimacy with her after eating it. So I took her out for ice cream after we finished eating. We bought the ice cream and I parked my car in a quiet place so that we could talk. As I took out the ice cream to give to her our eyes locked, and something electrifying passed between us. I didn’t notice I had leaned down to kiss her until I swiped my tongue over her lips.

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She welcomed my kiss with a passion that matched mine. Things got out of hand after that. My hands couldn’t get enough of her. And when I reached down to touch her, I felt how ready she was. I made room for her to sit on me and ride herself into exhaustion. “My turn,” I said as we moved the party to the back seat and I took over from her. At that moment, I couldn’t keep myself from telling her, “I love you. I don’t know how it happened or when it happened but I just know that I have fallen deeply in love with you.” Her eyes got all misty as she said, “I love you too. I have loved you for a long time but I didn’t think you would feel the same way about me.” We fell into a blissful silence after our confessions. After that day we have become inseparable. We always cook and eat. And though I enjoy her cooking, I enjoy her better.

He Left Me Because I Was Raised By A Single Mother–Beads Media

Apart from her unrivalled cooking skills, and energetic display of passion, she is kind, caring, very respectful, and has a heart of gold. She also knows how to keep a home. She has made me very happy since we started dating a year ago. I plan to introduce her to my family as the woman I want to marry. But there is something holding me back. She confided in me that her mother cheated on her father long ago. That affair resulted in the birth of her younger brother. They didn’t know about it until her brother’s biological father came to them with a DNA test to claim his son. This brought a little misunderstanding in their family but the problem has been resolved. Her parents are still together and the bond they share is stronger than anything I have ever seen. Even from afar, I can see how much her mother loves her father and how much she has sacrificed for their family. I admire that about her but the fact that she cheated on her husband makes me wonder if Luna is anything like her.

Luna shares most of her mother’s traits; her cooking skills, her kindness, her caring nature, and her commitment to her man. This is why I am afraid that she shares in her cheating traits too. She hasn’t done anything to make me think she will cheat on me, but no one knows the future. And there’s that saying that the apple does not fall far from the tree. Do you guys think it’s possible for her to follow in her mother’s footsteps completely? Or I am just overthinking things? Please, advise me.

–Alpha

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