In one week, I was intimate with four different men. Three of these men are married, and the other one isn’t very serious with me the way a boyfriend should be.

These are men I’ve been dating for the past two years. They live in different places, so I see them on different occasions. I could go for months without seeing any of them, and in some months, I can see at least two of them.

Last month, it looked like the universe was against me. It brought all these men around within one week.

I met Elvis on Monday.

On Tuesday, I met Eric.

On Friday, I met Nat in the morning and Frank in the evening.

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All of them had their way with me before leaving town.

A few days ago, I discovered I was pregnant. I wasn’t worried because I thought I knew what they would say. I sent a photo of the test kit to each of them individually and told them I was pregnant.

All the married men asked me, “So what are we going to do?”

I responded to each of them, “You’re the man, so you decide.”

It felt like these men had held a meeting to decide how to respond to the news. They all said I should keep the pregnancy. I called all of them one after the other to make sure they were the same people who had responded to my messages. They were relaxed, as if the pregnancy didn’t bother any of them.

I asked, “How about your wife? Do you think she would be happy to hear you’re having a child with another woman?”

Elvis answered, “I don’t know, but I will be happy to have a child with you. Who knows, it might even be a girl.”

Eric answered, “You’re a mature woman, for that matter. We can figure out how to keep this out of view.”

Nat said, “A child is a child. If it’s mine, then we keep it.”

I was so confused that it felt like I was dreaming inside a dream.

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When I said I couldn’t have the child and explained the reasons why I couldn’t, all these men came to me one after the other, explaining their dreams for the child and how they intended to keep me safe and secure.

The only one among them who is not married, Frank, was the only one who told me that whatever I decided, he would support me.

The last few days have been hell for me. Today, I want to let the baby go, but tomorrow, I allow their words to comfort me and tell myself, “I will keep it.”

The greater dilemma I’m facing now is finding out which of these four men is actually the father.

Is it possible to determine the paternity of an unborn child before delivery? And if it is, how do I go about testing the possible fathers?

—Golden 

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