One fateful day, I went to town. While walking along the road, I saw this beautiful, well-shaped lady. As I was about to walk past her, I touched her waist and said, “Wo ho yɛ akɔnɔ.” I was just paying her a compliment that she looked like a snack. I didn’t have any other motives. Not romantic interest. Not friendship. I just uttered those words and kept walking.

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A few steps later, I heard someone calling “Hello, hello…” I turned around and it was her, the pretty lady. To my surprise, she gave me her phone and asked me to dial my number for her. I smiled shyly and asked her, “You want my number?”

She said, “Yeah, I want to be your friend.” I didn’t think much of it. I gave her the number.

I didn’t hear from her until days later. She didn’t want friendship. She proposed love to me. Honestly, it was all so strange. What kind of woman expresses interest in a man she barely knows?

Maybe if she had actually tried to be my friend, she would have kept her feelings to herself. At least, that’s what I thought. So I told her, “I am not interested in what you want. I am a married man.”

Either she didn’t believe me or she was on a mission. She made it clear she didn’t care that I was married. She was willing to be my side chick. I am a one-woman kind of man. “I can’t cheat on my wife,” I turned her down.

I thought I was dealing with a logical being but no. For almost six months now, this lady has been on my neck that she wants me. I’ve told her I have nothing to offer her even if she gives herself to me. She doesn’t care.

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I’ve blocked her everywhere, and now that she can’t text or call, she has started hanging around where I usually pass. How annoying!

I’ve contemplated telling my wife about her, but knowing my wife, she will go and fight the lady and turn the issue into a public scene. I don’t want that kind of embarrassment.

Hmmmm abusua, I need help on how to handle this.

—Kyei

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