I can’t believe my beautiful relationship with Ama ended because of a simple misunderstanding. I blame it all on my ex-girlfriend, Lydia. Or better still, Ama’s bestfriend, Doris. I suppose the two ladies are responsible for the untimely end of my love story. This is what happened.
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A few days ago, I was chatting with Ama, when she told me that my ex and her friend were talking in a group chat. How they got to know each other, I have no idea. Regardless, I asked my girlfriend, “What are they talking about?”
From the screenshots she sent me, Doris had asked Lydia questions about her past with me. She asked Lydia if I ever cheated on her. My ex was honest. She told Doris I had eyes for no one else but her, and admitted that she was the one who cheated on me. It would have been fine if she ended there but she didn’t. She added some information that were lies.
I tried to explain my side of the story but my girlfriend wouldn’t listen. She chose to believe my ex over me. To clear the air, I told her, “Add me to your group chat or create another group chat so that I will address the issue in Lydia’s presence.”
The group was created but at the time I was ready to confront Lydia, my girlfriend and her friend were not online. It was just me and my ex. I didn’t want to start talking to her in their absence so I chose to wait. I didn’t hear from them until I dozed off.
When I woke up, I decided to step out and buy some food. Just at that time, Ama came online and texted me. I told her to wait because I was on my way out and couldn’t text while walking.
Unfortunately, on my way, I was pickpocketed and my phone got stolen. Because of that, I couldn’t reach Ama when I got home.
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It took two days before I was able to borrow my cousin’s phone and texted her to explain what had happened. Instead of understanding my situation, Ama accused me of disappearing with Lydia and claimed I had gone back to her.
To make matters worse, Doris asked Lydia directly if we were secretly dating again, but Lydia chose to ignore them. I don’t know why she didn’t just say No. Her silence made both Ama and Doris conclude that Lydia and I are secretly back together.
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Based on this, Ama has broken up with me. I’ve tried to explain countless times that I never went back to Lydia. I even asked Ama to show me proof of her accusations, but she has none. Instead, she insists I’m hiding things from her.
I feel unheard, unfairly judged, and hurt that Ama has ended our relationship based on false assumptions. How do I get my girl back? I really don’t want to lose her over something that isn’t true. If only her mosey friend didn’t go talking to my ex, none of this would have happened.
—Elvis
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Your gf is being silly, or she’s been looking for excuse to jilt you. If you can’t be heard and trusted, what is there to fight for? She’s your ex’s friend and that should tell you o never waste your energy. Not that your ex has become your enemy but, “A friend of enemy is an enemy”.
Your girlfriend was looking for an excuse to leave the relationship bro.
She’s done with you
There’s probably another person showing interest and she’s also probably interested hence the expedition by her best friend.
It hurts but you have to move on for your own peace of mind
Your Ex was looking for a way to end things but chose end it in a silly way. You should be thankful she ended it herself cos I am sue it’s a blessing in disguise. Sorry bout your phone. A friend of an enemy, is equally an enemy,
I feel you were set up and yes your girlfriend was ready to leave and all the events that transpired only paved a way for her to do it. Don’t worry yourself, their type are the ones that come back begging after awhile when the cobwebs have cleared from their eyes or when the desired person that they left you for has shown them pepper. Please live your life and don’t settle for second hand love. Your true love will find you.
I’m going through so much in my marriage I wanted to take my life if I had any poison with me because I can’t go through it anymore
Most of your problems seem self inflicted Bro. You should have just addressed what you wanted to address when you got added to the group. Since you didn’t state the lies that your ex told about you I can’t judge how justified your girlfriend was to break up with you. You were just unlucky, but I don’t understand why your gf’s friend was talking to your ex in the first place.