I didn’t know she had a car when we started talking. I had taken her number at an office and started calling her a few days later. After talking for over a week, we decided to go on our first date. This lady arrived in a Benz. I don’t know the model, but it was a nice Benz. No, I didn’t feel intimidated or anything. We had a nice date, laughed, and then we parted.

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The conversation continued on the phone. The vibe grew, and it got to a point where I thought it was time for me to propose. We scheduled another date, and again she arrived in a Honda Accord. It wasn’t even registered. We had a great night, but I thought it was better for me to propose through text than say it in person. I was a little nervous.

We met in town another day. It wasn’t a date. She happened to be close to where I was, and I asked her to come around. She came in another car. I asked, “Another car?”

She smiled and responded, “I didn’t know you were watching. They are not even mine.”

But one thing, or let me say, two things, I can’t help but notice is that each time we meet and we’re parting, she doesn’t offer to drop me off or even take me somewhere nearby where I can easily get a car home. She just says goodbye, drives off, and waves.

The second issue is that she doesn’t make any effort to contribute to what we eat. She’s not poor. Obviously, she’s rich. I won’t even say she’s richer than me because there’s no ‘me’ when it comes to riches, but she has never once offered to pay.

I would do it for her without thinking twice if I were in her shoes. If I went on a date with a lady, would I watch her leave while I’m driving? It wouldn’t happen. I would rather drive to her place, pick her up, and take her back home. But this lady I’m seeing hasn’t offered even once to help with my transportation.

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I’m beginning to think she’s not a kind person, and if she’s not, then even if we date, there’s no way she’s going to be helpful in other aspects of life. This is the reason I haven’t proposed yet, even though everything looks set and she’s only waiting for me to ask so she can say yes.

Am I wrong to think about it this way? Or should I ask first before it can be given to me? Shouldn’t kindness happen naturally without being asked for? Anaa, women don’t give men lifts?

—Obed

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