As a woman with beards, I have so much of it that I sometimes wish I could hand some to men who need it. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work like that, so I am stuck with it. Over the years, I have constantly shaved it, but when bumps started appearing, I switched to trimming it. The problem is that my hair grows very quickly and quite a lot, so even after trimming, it is still noticeable.

My ex used to love it. He made me feel comfortable about my hair and never made me feel like there was something wrong with me. Unfortunately, he travelled, and we couldn’t keep up with the long distance, so we called it quits.

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My new boyfriend has a very, very big problem with it. He complains about it as well. There is honestly not much I can do because I have very sensitive skin. I cannot keep shaving because of the bumps it causes, and I also cannot try laser or waxing because of my sensitive skin.

The way he makes me feel about my body is troubling too. I am certain that he is not comfortable with me being this hairy, so much so that he makes cheeky comments about the hair on my chest and even the ones on my stomach.

I know I shouldn’t compare people, but my ex was so loving and accepting when it came to my body hair. He made me feel confident and helped me love myself even more. If it wasn’t for the fact that he relocated, we may have been married by now.

I’m honestly confused right now and don’t know what to do.

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Should I be with someone who accepts this part of me without making me feel uncomfortable about it, or should I try to find a way to manage the hair because it bothers him?

—Emefa

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