All through my life, I have been the kind of lover who held on to love even when it was over. It came naturally to me. I always went back.
I’ve been seriously dating Edwin for close to three years now. We’ve grown together, encouraged each other, fallen, risen, and held on to our love.
The constant reason we fought was that he never took me to where he lived. Anytime we wanted to spend time alone, he came to my place. When I asked why, he’d say, “My grandma doesn’t like you. Not you, but where you come from is a problem. So let’s keep this low-key till we figure a way.” It sounded reasonable, so I agreed. Then I spoke to his mom, but we lost contact after a month.
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Edwin looked like a saint on the outside, but on the inside, when it was just me and him, he started growing abusive toward me. He called me names: “evil woman,” “witch,” “greedy.” All this because he found out I was still friends with Benedict, my ex-boyfriend. Benedict was just my friend. We outgrew each other and stayed friends. According to him, that’s why he never trusted me.
Then, I did a grave thing
So, he started dismissing my feelings. He ignored me until it suited him to talk. Every day felt like I was dating my enemy, an enemy who made a conscious effort to see me hurt. I cried to him. I prayed to God to give me patience and capacity, and I apologized for the smallest things, like calling him at a time he felt wasn’t right. I was weak and exhausted from what had become our routine.
One day, we had a huge argument. It triggered me to do one of the many things I had promised myself not to return to. I packed my bags, and I traveled to Kwesi’s place. He was also a friend. I went with the intention to talk to him. He knew men better than I did, could explain why Edwin was doing what he was doing to me. Before I knew it, the night passed, and we ended up sleeping together. I didn’t even realize when it was happening. It just happened.
Guilt ate me up so much I couldn’t sleep or eat until I told him. I told him about my daddy issues. Told him everything.
He wants a breakup, for us to part ways and pretend that we didn’t spend years loving and doting on each other.
I’ve been begging Edwin to forgive me. I didn’t stop loving him when I was in Kwesi’s bed. I was just emotionally exhausted. I needed a place to clear my head because I had been holding too much inside, especially against him. He kept dismissing our troubles even when they were right in front of him.
I know the relationship won’t be the same again, even if he gives us a chance. But I’ll take my chance. And even if we pass this test, what shows that his family will finally get to see past my tribe and accept me as his wife? But, when we get there we will cross the bridge.
I’m sorry for hurting him the way I did, and for hurting the other men I’ve been with. I’ve cheated almost every time I’ve had problems in a relationship, not because I love sex or anything like that, but because I crave the feeling of belonging to someone.
I have daddy issues, and that is why I don’t havr to feel ignored. Otherwise, it triggers the part of me that fears abandonment, and I go back to whoever is available for comfort.
It’s Not God’s Law For A Man To Apologize To A Woman
Edwin, if you read this, know that we have been through the worst and toughest times and always bounced back stronger. Remember our sacrifices. Don’t you remember what we’ve been through? Two terminations. I put my life on the line for you. After everything, surely you can’t just leave me hanging like this.
Please, do think about what it took for us to get here.
Hmm, maybe you can help me apologize to him. He may have a change of heart.
—Sheri
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You’re begging to go back to an abusive boyfriend. That’s interesting 🤔
Very interesting
Girl stop this please….where’s your self esteem huh?? Raise ur head up high and move on….this is not worth it ok. Wish I can give u a big hug🥹
Move on my dear,it’s for the best.
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I never thought I would be the kind of person to question the loyalty of someone I loved so deeply. For years, I believed trust was something that came naturally in a relationship, something you didn’t have to fight for or second-guess. But life has a way of testing even the strongest beliefs, and mine was tested in a way I never expected.
It started with small things—subtle changes that were easy to ignore at first. My partner became distant, more protective of their phone, and less emotionally available. Conversations that once flowed effortlessly became short and forced. At first, I blamed stress, work pressure, or even myself. I told myself I was overthinking, that I needed to be more understanding.
But deep down, something didn’t feel right.
The feeling grew stronger each day, turning into anxiety that I couldn’t shake. I found myself overanalyzing every little detail—late replies, unexplained absences, sudden changes in routine. It was exhausting, both mentally and emotionally. I felt stuck between wanting to trust and fearing the truth.
I knew I needed clarity, not assumptions.
That was when I decided to take a step back and approach the situation differently. Instead of acting out of fear or jumping to conclusions, I focused on finding the truth in a way that wouldn’t destroy me in the process. I reached out for guidance and support—someone who could help me understand what I was dealing with and how to handle it wisely.
The process wasn’t about invading privacy or doing anything harmful. It was about gaining clarity, observing patterns, and understanding behaviors that I had been ignoring. I started paying closer attention—not just to actions, but to consistency, communication, and emotional connection.
What I discovered wasn’t easy to accept.
There were clear signs that my partner had been emotionally involved elsewhere. It wasn’t something dramatic or obvious at first, but the evidence became undeniable over time. Conversations lacked sincerity, priorities had shifted, and there was a clear disconnect between words and actions.
I won’t lie—it hurt deeply.
There’s a different kind of pain that comes with realizing someone you trusted has not been completely honest with you. It shakes your confidence, your self-worth, and your understanding of the relationship. But as painful as it was, I also felt something unexpected…
Relief.
Relief that I was no longer living in confusion. Relief that I wasn’t “overthinking” or imagining things. Relief that I finally had the clarity I needed to make a decision about my life.
That clarity changed everything.
Instead of reacting with anger or desperation, I chose to handle the situation with calmness and self-respect. I confronted my partner—not with accusations, but with facts and observations. The conversation was difficult, but it was necessary. And in that moment, everything became clear.
There was no more denial.
What followed wasn’t easy, but it was empowering. I made the decision to prioritize myself—my peace, my dignity, and my future. For the first time in a long while, I felt in control again.
Looking back now, I realize that what I needed wasn’t just answers—I needed strength. Strength to face the truth, strength to accept it, and strength to move forward.
This experience taught me some powerful lessons:
Trust your instincts — if something feels off, it’s worth paying attention to.
Clarity is better than confusion — even painful truth is better than endless doubt.
Self-respect matters more than holding on — never lose yourself trying to keep someone else.
You deserve honesty — always.
Today, I’m in a much better place—mentally, emotionally, and personally. I’ve grown stronger, wiser, and more aware of what I truly deserve in a relationship. The experience didn’t break me; it rebuilt me.
If you’re in a situation where you feel uncertain, confused, or emotionally drained, I want you to know this—you’re not alone. It’s okay to seek clarity. It’s okay to ask questions. And most importantly, it’s okay to choose yourself.
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