Earlier this year, I prayed to be in a relationship, and God answered me. It’s just that the answer didn’t come the way I expected. Instead of meeting one man, two men came into my life: Kwaku and Kofi.

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Kofi is kind, gentle, and genuinely good to me, but he’s much older. He wants to marry me.

“I am too young for marriage. I am only 20,” I told him.

He understood.

Then there’s Kwaku, who actually came into my life before Kofi. He made it clear from the start that he’s deeply in love with me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me. At first, I thought he was joking, but over time, I realised he was serious.

I am talking to the two men. I am not dating any of them yet, just talking stage. As I spend more time engaging them, I find myself developing feelings for the two of them.

However, there’s one thing that makes me lean toward Kofi. I believe strongly in waiting until marriage for intimacy. When I told Kwaku this, he said it wouldn’t work for him.

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“I enjoy being sexually active,” he admitted, “and when I am in a relationship, I want to explore all I can with my partner.”

Kofi, on the other hand, said he would wait till I am ready. He wouldn’t pressure me into doing anything I don’t want to do. He would only do what I am comfortable with. I liked hearing that from him.

So here I am — caught between two men and trying to choose what’s best for me. I have known Kwaku longer and I can tell his love is true. Kofi is new but he seems like a patient man. I am unsure whom to choose because I like them both.

—Serwaa

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