I met a guy about four months ago. He was the one who initiated the conversation, and we started talking. At the time, he lived in Takoradi while I was in Sunyani. I was worried about the distance, but he reassured me, saying that distance is nothing and that people make sacrifices for the ones they love.
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He has a steady job with a monthly income, while I am an unemployed graduate. I told him honestly that I was managing someone’s mobile money business and earning just 500 cedis a month. I’m the kind of woman who doesn’t like asking men for favors—I prefer to work for my own money, even if it’s not much.
We had been in the relationship for two months, and during that time, he never gave me anything financially. That wasn’t my main problem, though. The real issue started when he told me he would like to visit me. I explained that I still live with my parents, but he kept insisting that I would be the one to cover his hotel expenses and food when he comes. At first, I thought he was joking, but he repeated it so often that I got uncomfortable. I suggested we postpone the visit because I wasn’t financially ready, but he refused. He arranged to stay with a friend.
When he finally visited, I still ended up paying for his feeding and transportation whenever we went out. He stayed three days with his friend and then traveled back. Even after the visit, he would randomly and indirectly ask me for money, saying things like, “Babe, I’m craving indomie, abeg do me momo to satisfy my craving.”
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That was when I became convinced he was stingy. I realized that being with someone like him would make my future miserable. When I confronted him about what I observed, he accused me of being materialistic. He claimed he was saving to invest in our future, so he didn’t want to spend money unnecessarily.
On top of that, he also had a strong mouth odor that I could smell from a distance. I tried to overlook it at first because I loved him, but when I added his stinginess to the mix, I knew I couldn’t continue. I had to end the relationship and block him everywhere.
—Ewurafua
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I thought you were making sense until the mention of his mouth odour. Be honest, for how long were you going to endure his bad smell? You’re clearly after his money but since he wouldn’t simp on you, you suddenly realized he smelt bad.
Next thread please
Damaluk, I don’t agree with you. She clearly told him her financial situation and the stingy dude still insisted to visit.
I don’t wanna believe you are stingy too.
He is simply a chronic stingy man hiding behind future investment.
Oral hygiene is important. If he has bad oral odour and money odour shouldnt she say it?
Ewurafua, you are one of the smartest ladies on planet earth.
Some of us do investment for our future family too but we still do not let our women shoulder silly expenses like I’m craving for indomie so send me Momo and all the nonsense your stingy boyfriend spoke about.
At least if he will not give you, he shouldnt take from you too.
You deserve better my dear, run from such men at all times.
He is spending on another woman, trust me.