My mom is dating a new man. I don’t have a problem with that because she has been very lonely since my dad died almost ten years ago. Because she was always complaining of loneliness, I asked her to leave our hometown and come and live here with me. It’s at my place that she met this new man she’s currently dating.
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There’s a site close to my place. The workers there come to a shop around our house to buy things, and the site manager, who is also my mom’s age, saw my mom, and I think they started talking.
My only problem is that my mom brings this man to our place. It’s a one-bedroom self-contained apartment, and I’m mostly not at home. While I’m at work, this man is with my mom, enjoying himself under a roof I have provided for her. I’m not happy about that. The idea that my mom brings a man home to do lovey-dovey things on my bed while I’m away makes me cringe.
I’ve met them twice, and the man was unashamedly in his singlet, sitting in the hall as if he paid the rent for us, as if he was the head of the house. Because of this man, the food I budget for the month gets finished by mid-month. He doesn’t contribute anything to my mom’s life except being here and being served like a king.
I told my mom to go to the man instead of bringing him here to feed him. She asked if I had a problem with it, and I said, “Yes, I have every problem with it.” I went ahead to explain the whole situation to her. She told me I’m being jealous on my dead father’s behalf and that I don’t want her happiness.
Honestly, I don’t care what she does with her life as long as I don’t see it. Because she doesn’t want to listen to me and keeps bringing the man here, I want her gone. Or better still, I want to be rude to the man and tell him not to come to my house again.
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I think these are the only two options available to me since my mom won’t listen. What do you suggest? Which is the better way?
—Jack
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In my opinion, disrespect the man instead and if nothing changes then you send your mum to the illage again
Take your mother back to the village. It will serve as a test for the man’s love for her.
Talk to the man politely give him reasons and question like will he be happy when someone does the same thing to him
The man is already disrespecting you and you are talking polite? Ask him to rent a new place for your mum where he can be Lord of the Manor. For all you know he may be married with family at home and getting a free ride here!