Right from childhood, I knew that I wanted to have a marriage just like my parents. It was beautiful. It was peaceful. I can only describe their love with the love Christ has for the church.

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Even when they were having issues, you wouldn’t even know unless you were very observant. And even then, it didn’t last long. I have said there is love at home because ours was constantly filled with love and laughter. My dad still giggles like a teenager when I mention my mom in our conversation over the phone.

Now tell me why a 23-year-old girl will call to tell me she’s pregnant for my father.

I confronted him, and he’s here apologising, saying I should never tell my mom. Like how? I am the first and only girl, followed by 4 boys. Everybody says I am my daddy’s partner in crime, but this isn’t a crime I would want to be part of.

I have 4 kids and a husband to manage. I already have a lot on my plate. I can’t add this to it.

The girl is refusing to abort despite my dad’s plea. I can’t tell my brothers because they will tell my mommy, and it will break her into pieces. And she has BP too.

I can’t carry this alone. My dad is refusing to eat. He said it happened only once. So he’s not sure he’s responsible. I call him, and clearly from his voice he is having it easy. Even so, he wants to be on my phone 24/7 planning on how to convince this little girl.

Mabr3 ooo. He’s draining me emotionally. It is affecting my thought processes. What should I do? All I know is he doesn’t want the child.

—Anna

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