Our relationship hasn’t been in good shape since Valentine’s Day. I did my best, but he thinks it didn’t come from me, so I didn’t mean it. He got me a gift—something substantial. I don’t have a lot of money like he has, but I tried my best. I parceled something for him, something my money could buy, and later sent him a long message enumerating all the moments he had made me feel loved and pampered. I wrote, “I would gladly want to do my next life with you if it came to that because I love you that much.”
Right after he read the message, he texted, “Confess, you wrote it with AI, me boa?” I answered, “Yes, I did, but it’s my own idea and what I want to communicate from my heart.” He wrote back, “I knew it!” And then he stopped texting. I think he also stopped loving me because he has never been the same guy I knew. According to him, my message didn’t feel real and felt forced.
I had to read every word and remind him of how those events happened in our lives. “How can real events that happened in our lives be AI?” He responded, “Why didn’t you write it yourself so I know it’s indeed coming from you and you mean it? This is like a forwarded message.”
We haven’t broken up yet, but we haven’t been the same again. We are hanging in there because he’s still giving me attitude. I love him, but that’s one thing I hate about him. He doesn’t let go easily. He’ll hold on to things for so long until it turns to air before he comes back to normal again. Is this even a problem? But then again, that’s the kind of boyfriend I have, and the longer this continues, the more I think of exiting this relationship.
I Left Him Because He Didn’t Help In The Kitchen
It’s AI and so what? Who doesn’t use AI? Even our prayers to God koraa, we use AI to ensure they’re written in a way that pleases God, na love message. He should be there!
—Mercy
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Lol…I perceive your boyfriend to be a deeply emotional person. He values genuineness over long words. I feel him and I totally understand how he feels. However, he needs to work on his ability to let things go and that is because of how deep he feels things.
I’ll suggest that you tell him to forget about the letter you wrote instead of defending it. Then, look into his eyes and reassure him of your love for him, accompanied by sweet and beautiful words. Going forward, avoid writing a letter to him, say those things to him verbally because at this point he might find it a bit difficult to believe whatever you write is from your heart. Use your mouth to affirm him till he gets to trust you again, then you can continue with your letter but no more with AI please.
Thank you for being sincere with him when he asked if you wrote the letter with AI. All the best! God bless you!
I understand him. I’m a lady who hates AI and internet forwarded messages no matter how genuine it is.
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