There’s this lady I’m dating. She’s twenty-seven and a very beautiful woman, but she acts like a kid. I don’t know if someone spoiled her that much or if her upbringing wasn’t right. Whenever I show her love or do something to tell her how much I care, she begins to misbehave. We would be in town, and she would jump on my back, telling me to carry her.

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The first time it happened, I was so shocked I thought she was losing her mind. She jumped on my back, grabbed my neck from behind, and tried to stay there. Even when I tried to put her down, she lifted her feet off the ground, telling me to carry her home.

Later, she said she was playing with me and asked, “I thought these were the kinds of games lovers play?”

That same night, when I wanted intimacy, she asked me to carry her on my back across the room before she would allow me. I did. For over ten minutes, I carried her up and down until she let herself fall onto the bed.

It was becoming a routine until I screamed at her one day and warned her not to do that again. I thought she would fight back, but she suddenly entered a submissive mode.

When I’m calm and do things out of love, she goes overboard, pulling unnecessary pranks like a kid. When I act tough, she listens and acts like she likes that side of me better. Everything I say when I’m angry, she does. Sometimes she acts like she expects me to hit her, but all my life, I’ve never touched a woman.

So I’m in this relationship not knowing which side of myself I should employ. Naturally, I’m a lovey-dovey type, but she won’t act right when I am affectionate unless I shout and act angrily toward her.

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I love her very much, and I’m ready to show it in different ways, but immediately I smile at her, she begins to misbehave, like a dog that has seen a bone. When I’m stiff and strict, I could even tell her to lie on the floor for me to step on her, and she would do it. I’m not even exaggerating.

Is there a place where this kind of condition is healed? I would take her there tomorrow if you showed me the place today.

—Alberto

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