I left one of my favourite wigs in my boyfriend’s room. Days later when I went there, it wasn’t there. He had no idea where the wig had passed but he said, “It’s only my elder sister who has been here since you left the wig. Let me call and ask her.”
He made a call. It was on a loudspeaker. She laughed at the question. She asked, “Is she looking for it? Tell her it’s with me. I’ll bring it next time I’m coming around.”
No shame. No remorse. She even found it funny that she had my wig.
Days turned to weeks but the wig didn’t come. What came were excuses and the reason she couldn’t bring the wig back. Weeks turned into one month. My wig didn’t come. I put pressure on my boyfriend so he called her. Again it was on a loudspeaker. She said, “What kind of pressure is this? Is that the only wig she has that she won’t let me rest?”
I knew she wasn’t bringing it. One Sunday she posted a photo on Facebook. She was wearing my wig. I knew why she didn’t want to bring it. It fit her. She looked gorgeous in a wig that didn’t belong to her. I was pissed. I wanted to comment that she should bring my wig but I didn’t. I told my boyfriend about it and he thanked me for not commenting to embarrass her.
Two months later, no wig.
We attended their cousin’s wedding and she came. Not only her, but other siblings of my boyfriend also came. They all came to say hello to me but she didn’t come because she was wearing my wig. She thought I didn’t see her. My boyfriend begged me not to say anything and promised he would collect it for me that very day. I was boiling inside looking at her slay my wig. Her pretence and disregard for my feelings got the better of me.
After church service, she was entering into a taxi when I quickly snapped the wig off her head. She looked back in shock, shook her head and entered the taxi. I put it in my bag while everyone looked at me in awe. My boyfriend was angry. His other siblings found it funny. Later in the evening, I had a call from my boyfriend’s mom. She was livid and throwing words around carelessly. I apologized but that didn’t stop her.
I don’t know what happened. It looks like they had a family to discuss what happened because suddenly, my boyfriend has intensified his anger, blaming me for causing his elder sister embarrassment.
The Secret He Wasn’t Telling Me Was On His Phone
It doesn’t bother me cos I know he would come around. What I don’t understand is his family’s angst against me. Why are they not blaming her but me? Was I wrong to claim what was rightfully mine? I don’t care about their anger but I want to know if I went extreme.
— Olivia
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My dear you never did anything wrong. Kingdom of God was suffering violent, as a lady of Vawulence you took it by force🤣.
Please start looking for another guy. This your current boyfriend, if he marries you in the future, you will have a lot of battle with his siblings and mum.
If I were you I would have left it for her not because she is my boyfriend’s sister. What you did will become a mark on you. People will talk about you negatively. . Don’t let anger get the best of you. She didn’t do well by disrespecting you but you too didn’t do well. Wig y3 d3n ? You would have worn till it has worn out and throw it away. But your boyfriend’s sister didn’t force. If your boyfriend still doesn’t come around then my dear move on.
Dear sister,if you still have that wig with you, kindly throw it away or burn it . Don’t put it in your head.
Get another guy and move on cos your boyfriend is fully controlled by the family.
But you should have left it for her to keep anyway cos it’s not even safe nor healthy for you to use it again.
Hmmm. Learn to act the fool at times just so you win in the long run. Now, his family will never forgive you or respect you. Move on. In the future control your temper
Don’t learn to act the fool at anytime. You did nothing wrong. What I hate the most is people who feels entitled to other people’s stuffs. Someone said what is wig? Some cost an amount that most people can’t afford to have plus if it’s just a wig why didn’t her boyfriend’s sister get herself one since it’s just a wig. Plus the guts of that family to even act the way they did it simply tells me they have no shame. Leave that relationship asap . Don’t feel nothing cos you did nothing wrong.
Nana Ama has said it all. You didn’t do anything wrong. All this shows is that your boyfriend comes from an entitled shameless family that lacks home training. Why would you see someone’s wig in your brother’s house and carry it away? Without telling your brother or even finding out the owner? Then you refuse to return it and start rocking it everywhere and even belittling the wig when the owner is trying to get it back? Is it the only wig that she has? And this coming from a human being who’s parading a borrowed wig around town without the owner’s permission. I think that your boyfriend is angry because he had already begged you not to embarrass her in public. Perhaps you could have gone to her house instead and retrieved your property from her. But personally, I like what you did, because it will discourage similar behaviour in the future. She knows that she can’t mess with your belongings and it would encourage her to respect your boundaries. As for her mother, she should have taught her children basic manners, instead of her to be calling you and attacking you. But maybe her daughter lied to her about what happened. When your boyfriend calms down, you should ask him to tell his mum the real story and if she still sees nothing wrong with what her daughter did, then you can understand where her behaviour comes from and act accordingly.