After sharing my story here some months ago, a lot of details have come up—some of which I wasn’t aware of until recently, when I finally got the full picture. A lot has gone on behind my back, and a lot is still going on currently.

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When my story was published, I took my time and went through all the comments. One question everyone asked was, “Why didn’t the other lady file for him to be in Canada?”

Let me answer that question before anything else.

I said that when my husband was coming to Canada the first time, he passed through Vancouver to see his girlfriend before coming to Toronto, where I lived. That was not what happened. He is such a great liar—he spins stories around and ends up spinning your head too.

The other lady is called Jacqueline. She wasn’t in Canada before my husband arrived; she was in Ghana. It was after my husband had landed in Canada that they started dating. I was busy raising our child and loving him as the man I married. I wasn’t looking around for traces of cheating. I believed him and thought he would do the right things.

While I was busy being in love, he was busy talking to Jacqueline and arranging a future with her. Jacqueline didn’t know anything about Canada or how to get here. It was my husband who planted the idea of Canada in her mind. He told her, “Don’t worry. I will do everything within my power to bring you here.”

So he dipped into our savings and wasted our money on Jacqueline’s travel arrangements.

He made her apply to a school in Vancouver so he could secure a student visa for her, and they were successful. When she was coming to Canada, it was my husband who paid for everything. He rented an apartment for her and ensured she had a safe trip to Canada.

When he was coming to Canada initially and said he was passing through Vancouver, it was all a lie. Maybe he went there to check on the school for the girl, or maybe the whole Vancouver trip was just a lie. It was after Jacqueline arrived in the country that he started traveling to Vancouver.

He would tell me there was business to attend to in Vancouver and travel there for three weeks to stay with the girl, while I was here all alone, juggling work and motherhood. Jacqueline would ask for 10k, and he would send it to her without thinking twice. Whatever Jacqueline asked of him, he provided. But I had to work to earn my own money just to be able to spend on myself.

He has told everyone about the plans he has for Jacqueline. He is so loud about it that our mutual friends wondered if I was a tree in his life. These friends know how I suffered because of him and how I put everything aside just to bring him to Canada. When he talks to them about Jacqueline, they come and tell me and warn me to be careful. That is how I got to know his plans.

As we speak, Jacqueline is on a student visa, waiting patiently for my husband to marry her someday. And it’s not only Jacqueline my husband has brought to Canada. Unbeknownst to me, he has also managed to bring Jacqueline’s brother to Canada. The guy is schooling here, and my husband is the one sponsoring his education, meanwhile he has brothers and sisters of his own he could have helped. I don’t know what the girl has given him to eat. He is currently building a seven-bedroom house for Jacqueline’s mother. Everyone says he is under some kind of spell, but that is his own case.

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So to those who asked why Jacqueline couldn’t file for him to enter Canada, that is the story. It was rather my husband who brought her to Canada. Now that this is out of the way, let me give you an update on the main story…(Update comes at 3pm today)

—Anokyewaa

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