My ex is threatening me. She says she’s going to curse me because I used and dumped her. Before you judge who is wrong and who is right, listen to what happened…

We exchanged contacts on Tuesday and started talking and texting on Wednesday. I liked her. She had all the qualities I wanted in a woman but I wanted to take my time to know her well; what makes her thick? What other qualities does she possess? What kind of future I could build with her.

One Friday she asked that we go out and I agreed. We had a lot to drink and a lot to eat. She was sparkling. Every word she said drew me into her so we ended the night with a proposal. She didn’t stretch it. She simply said, “I like you too and I usually don’t stretch it when I love the man.”

On our way home she asked me, “So you mean I should go home? Don’t you think we have to consummate this new love we’ve found?”

So we ended up at my place and spent the night together.

In the morning, she asked me to give her transportation to go home and I did. When she got home, she called to tell me there was nothing in the house so I should send her something to buy food and I did. The next day, it was her phone having problems so she needed a new one. I told her to give me some time to figure something out. Days later, her mother was sick and she needed assistance.

I was in the office when she called, “Eiii my man, you’re not romantic at all. Look at how high the sun is. Won’t you say by now your baby hasn’t eaten anything so let me package something and send it through delivery? I like my men to surprise me so surprise me.”

I sent her food.

The request never stopped coming and a man has to think fast. I spoke to her; “Dear, we just met. Why don’t you tone it down with all these requests? Take it slowly.”

She took it the wrong way and started shouting, “What have I asked from you? The food that you sent me? How much is that? And what is wrong if I ask something from my boyfriend? We just met but you had sex with me, right? Even the phone you promised me you haven’t bought it so what aaa have I taken from you that you’re complaining?”

To cut a long story short, I broke up with her. She was sending messages and voice notes insulting me and saying I’d used and dumped her. I blocked her. She knows my house so she came around threatening me, “I will curse you for how you used and dumped me. Do you think I’m one of those girls? You don’t know me. You wait and see. Your joystick won’t even get up for you to yearn for another woman.”

The question is, what did I do wrong? Not that I’m scared but do you think if she curses me, the curse will work? What I did to her the last time she came around I don’t think she will come back again but I’m wondering what she can do.

—Ema

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